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FetLife is a FREE Social Network for the BDSM & fetish community.

Similar to Facebook and mySpace but run by kinksters like you and me. We think it is more fun that way. Don't you?

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“I am totally impressed. I love the feel of the interface, I love the concept, I am going to tell every kinky friend I know to join.”

— BIF 41F Switch (Ontario, Canada)


358,607 Members

have shared 1,201,684 pictures and 6,074 videos, participated in 404,937 discussions in 13,983 groups, are going to 1,501 upcoming events and written 197,646 blog posts.  Welcome to kinky heaven!

Why Join FetLife?

  1. It's Free

    Free as in Google, mySpace and Facebook free.


  2. Your kinky friends are already on here

    With 358,607 members, there is a good chance they are already on FetLife. Find them, message them, share pictures with them and see what they are up to.


  3. A great way to make new kinky friends

    Don't tell me you are full up on kinky friends.


  4. FetLife is not a meat market

    And that is why it works. Fewer trolls, less BS and more real people.


  5. People on FetLife accept you as you

    It gives you a place to learn, share and explore your kinks.


  6. Get in touch with your local community

    Without the trouble of signing up for newslists and endless streams of emails.


  7. There are over 1501 upcoming events listed

    Discover events near you and find out who is going to them.


  8. Join one of over 13,983 Groups

    Our groups a great place to ask questions, get advice & give advice to/from a large portion of the community.


  9. It has a simple design and interface

    We are proud of the design. It is simple and gets out of your way.


  10. Designed by the community, for the community

    We are not a faceless corporation. We are kinksters just like you.


What people are saying about FetLife?


“Candidly, I LOVE this place. I’ve been telling my friends, ‘Somebody finally got it right’.

— Jay Wiseman, author of SM 101

“FetLife.com: effortless to join and obviously created by people who have been online and in the fetish community forever.”

— Dear Sasha, Montreal Mirror & Eye Weekly & Uptown

“I have never had a place on myspace or otherwise because those sites are a bit… icky. This is wonderfully not icky!”

— naughtyabby 30F sub (Oregon, United States)

“FetLife is invaluable for finding friends and making connections. It singlehandedly got me a social life in my area.”

— tomboy_femme 22GQ Switch (Oregon, United States)

“TY very much.. so far this is one of the easiest sites to maneuver threw and I have been giving all my friends in the lifestyle the link to join.. :)”

— sunny 37F sub (Michigan, United States)

“Great website. I have been checking out facebook but I have to keep it somewhat neutral as vanilla family and friends are there. Its great to have somewhere to go where you don't have to hide anything.”

— shy_but_sassy 43F (British Columbia, Canada)

“You know what, I adore the simplicity of the interface. I think it combines a lot of the best elements some other sites while not feeling like a meat-market or a show of social bravado.”

— Sinner 39M Dom (Minnesota, United States)






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