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“Keep in touch with your BDSM & fetish friends all while meeting new kinksters and discovering new fetishes.”
FetLife is a social utility, like Facebook and mySpace, designed specifically for the BDSM & fetish community and run by sexual deviants. We think it is more fun that way. Don't you?
“I am totally impressed. I love the feel of the interface, I love the concept, I am going to tell every kinky friend I know to join.”
Tell me more about FetLife!
FetLife is free
Not free as in free to just create an account, but free as in Google, YouTube, mySpace and Facebook free. This is the only way to do it right!
Join or Form Your Own Groups
Are you tired of being filtered and kicked-off of vanilla sites for just being yourself? There are over 350 groups for you to join into the conversation on FetLife with the large majority of them not being vanilla.
Be The First To Find Out About Upcoming Events
If you go to all your local FetNights and just want to know who is going this weekend or you have never gone to a FetNight and want to be introduced to your local scene, it is all good. (coming soon)
Learn About & Discover New Fetishes
Browse all the different fetishes that people are into or curious about and learn more about them. Discuss fetishes and meet people who are interested in the same ones as you.
Easily Stay Connected With Your Friends
See the latest pics they've uploaded, what fetishes they've recently gotten into or are curious about and who they've recently met.
Separate Your Kinky Friends From Vanilla
I am on Facebook and mySpace just like everyone else. I have my co-workers, family and classmates all on there. Do I want them to know about my kinky side? Not really. It would be hard to explain to my grandma at Christmas dinner.
Make New Friends
Except for the days I am wearing my "Want your ass spanked?" t-shirt, it is hard to pick people out from the crowd who have a kinky side to them… without getting slapped that is.
FetLife Is Defined & Developed By The Community
We are not a faceless corporation. We are sexual deviants just like you. We built FetLife because we got tired of the alternatives and we continue to work on FetLife full-time because we want to give back to the community we love and call home.
Don't just trust our word for it.
See what other people have been saying about FetLife.
“Great website. I have been checking out facebook but I have to keep it somewhat neutral as vanilla family and friends are there. Its great to have somewhere to go where you don't have to hide anything.”
“Well done! It's great to see something aside from the commercially bogged down websites, like alt.com, which used to be a great place but now sucks big time (too much focus on ads and subscriptions and not enough on service). Your website looks great, has a simple and friendly feel about it.”
“You know what, I adore the simplicity of the interface. I think it combines a lot of the best elements some other sites while not feeling like a meat-market or a show of social bravado.”
“I have never had a place on myspace or otherwise because those sites are a bit… icky. This is wonderfully not icky!”
“This is great! I'm really enjoying fetlife. I'm surprised, as I hated myspace, facebook, yahoo, msn, and each and every other attempt at "social networking". I love the systems simplicity, its not clogged up with frivolous glitter, it just does what it needs to without getting in the way.”
“TY very much.. so far this is one of the easiest sites to maneuver threw and I have been giving all my friends in the lifestyle the link to join.. :)”
“I appreciate you putting this social network together. It's nice to have a place where I can just be myself without editing for the audience.”