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“Keep in touch with your
BDSM & fetish friends all while meeting new kinksters and discovering new fetishes.”

FetLife is a social utility, like Facebook and mySpace, for the BDSM & fetish community designed and run by sexual deviants. We think it is more fun that way. Don't you?

“I am totally impressed. I love the feel of the interface, I love the concept, I am going to tell every kinky friend I know to join.”

— BIF 41F Switch (Ontario, Canada)

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FetLife is free

Not free as in free to just create an account, but free as in Google, YouTube, mySpace and Facebook free. This is the only way to do it right!


Meet New People

Except for the days I am wearing my "Want your ass spanked?" t-shirt, it is hard to pick people out from the crowd who have a kinky side to them… without getting slapped that is.

Meet people through your social network or by browsing through people that live near you.


Find Out What Is Happening This Weekend In The Fet Community Near You

If you go to all your local FetNights and just want to know who is going this weekend or you have never gone to a FetNight and want to be introduced to your local scene, it is all good. (coming soon)

Makes It Easy For You To Separate Your Kinky Friends From Your Vanilla Friends

I am on Facebook and mySpace just like everyone else. I have my co-workers, family and classmates all on there. Do I want them to know about my kinky side? Not really. It would be hard to explain to my grandma at Christmas dinner.


Stay In Contact With Your BDSM & Fetish Friends In Between Events

See the latest pics they've uploaded, what fetishes they've recently gotten into or are curious about and who they've recently met.


Discover New Fetishes And Learn More About The Fetishes You're Already Into

Browse all the different fetishes that people are into or curious about and learn more about them. Discuss fetishes and meet people who are interested in the same ones as you.

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What are people saying about FetLife?

“Great website. I have been checking out facebook but I have to keep it somewhat neutral as vanilla family and friends are there. Its great to have somewhere to go where you don't have to hide anything.”

— shy_but_sassy 43F (British Columbia, Canada)

“Well done! It's great to see something aside from the commercially bogged down websites, like alt.com, which used to be a great place but now sucks big time (too much focus on ads and subscriptions and not enough on service). Your website looks great, has a simple and friendly feel about it.”

— NikTizek 43M Dom (Queensland, Australia)

“You know what, I adore the simplicity of the interface. I think it combines a lot of the best elements some other sites while not feeling like a meat-market or a show of social bravado.”

— Sinner 39M Dom (Minnesota, United States)

“I have never had a place on myspace or otherwise because those sites are a bit… icky. This is wonderfully not icky!”

— naughtyabby 30F sub (Oregon, United States)

“This is great! I'm really enjoying fetlife. I'm surprised, as I hated myspace, facebook, yahoo, msn, and each and every other attempt at "social networking". I love the systems simplicity, its not clogged up with frivolous glitter, it just does what it needs to without getting in the way.”

— ChrisTopHer 50M Dom (Ontario, Canada)

“TY very much.. so far this is one of the easiest sites to maneuver threw and I have been giving all my friends in the lifestyle the link to join.. :)”

— sunny 37F sub (Michigan, United States)

“I appreciate you putting this social network together. It's nice to have a place where I can just be myself without editing for the audience.”

— BlackOrchid 42F Switch (Ontario, Canada)

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