FetLife is a FREE Social Network for the BDSM & fetish community.
Similar to Facebook and MySpace but run by kinksters like you and me. We think it is more fun that way. Don't you?
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Candidly, I LOVE this place. I’ve been telling my friends, ‘Somebody finally got it right’.
124,661 videos, participated in
68,104 groups, are going to
234,969 upcoming events
1,315,293 blog posts.
Why Join FetLife?
Free as in Google, mySpace and Facebook free.
We have a fetish for security. That's why we're the first social network to be 100% SSL. The same security banks use.
Your kinky friends are already on here
With 2,742,583 members, there is a good chance they are already on FetLife. Find them, message them, share pictures with them and see what they are up to.
A great way to make new kinky friends
Don't tell me you are full up on kinky friends.
FetLife is not a meat market
And that is why it works. Fewer trolls, less BS and more real people.
People on FetLife accept you as you are
It gives you a place to learn, share and explore your kinks.
Get in touch with your local community
There is no easier way than FetLife. And if you want to get active locally, we have over 234,969 events listed.
Join one of over 68,104 Groups
Our groups are a great place to ask questions, get advice & give advice to/from a large portion of the community.
It has a simple design and interface
We are proud of the design. It is simple and gets out of your way.
Designed by the community, for the community
We are not a faceless corporation. We are kinksters just like you.
What are people saying about FetLife?
“FetLife.com: effortless to join and obviously created by people who have been online and in the fetish community forever.”
“I have never had a place on myspace or otherwise because those sites are a bit… icky. This is wonderfully not icky!”
“I am totally impressed. I love the feel of the interface, I love the concept, I am going to tell every kinky friend I know to join.”
“FetLife is invaluable for finding friends and making connections. It singlehandedly got me a social life in my area.”
“TY very much.. so far this is one of the easiest sites to maneuver threw and I have been giving all my friends in the lifestyle the link to join.. :)”
“Great website. I have been checking out facebook but I have to keep it somewhat neutral as vanilla family and friends are there. Its great to have somewhere to go where you don't have to hide anything.”
Sound good? Then Sign-Up Now!
And join 2,742,583 kinksters in some fun times.
* The “98.64% of FetLifers would recommend FetLife to a friend” is based on a survey of the community that was conducted in January 2010.