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Similar to Facebook and MySpace but run by kinksters like you and me. We think it is more fun that way. Don't you?
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Candidly, I LOVE this place. I’ve been telling my friends, ‘Somebody finally got it right’.
shared 14,651,109 pictures and 125,158 videos, participated in 3,686,431 discussions in 68,101 groups, are going to 235,593 upcoming events and reading 1,318,432 blog posts. Kinky heaven!
Free as in Google, mySpace and Facebook free.
We have a fetish for security. That's why we're the first social network to be 100% SSL. The same security banks use.
With 2,749,597 members, there is a good chance they are already on FetLife. Find them, message them, share pictures with them and see what they are up to.
Don't tell me you are full up on kinky friends.
And that is why it works. Fewer trolls, less BS and more real people.
It gives you a place to learn, share and explore your kinks.
There is no easier way than FetLife. And if you want to get active locally, we have over 235,593 events listed.
Our groups are a great place to ask questions, get advice & give advice to/from a large portion of the community.
We are proud of the design. It is simple and gets out of your way.
We are not a faceless corporation. We are kinksters just like you.
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