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FetLife is the Most Popular Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community.

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A beautifully diverse community of members from all over the world.
71,357,865
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Explore, learn, and discover new things every day.
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Upcoming Events
Local munches, classes, play parties, BDSM parties, and more.
FetLife's Mission

To help people feel comfortable with who they are sexually.

Why join FetLife?

A Community for Everyone

No matter where you are in your sexual journey, FetLife has something for you.

Explore and Learn

With 158,477 groups and 4,847,113 writings, FetLife is the best place to explore your kinks and sexuality.

Find Local Events

With 19,226 upcoming events you can find local and virtual workshops, munches, and play parties near you.

Not a Meat Market

FetLife is not a dating site, which makes it the best place to meet new friends, play partners, and life partners.

Beautifully Diverse

We celebrate our diversity and our uniqueness. There is no one right way, there is only the right way for you.

Privacy First

We don't sell or share your data and on deletion of your account we permanently delete everything.

By Kinksters, For Kinksters

We are not a faceless corporation. We are kinksters just like you who needed a place to call home.

It's 99.9% Free

We don't get in the way of you interacting with people and having fun. People can support us for nice to have features.

Be Your Authentic Self

Unlike other places on the internet, on FetLife you can be your complete authentic self.

“Candidly, I LOVE this place. I've been telling my friends someone finally got it right.”

— Jay Wiseman, author of SM 101
What can I find on FetLife?

Explore, Discover, Learn

With over 883,362 fetishes and kinks, there's something for everyone. Here's some of the most popular ones:

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Explore and Discover your Sexuality, Kinks, and Fetishes Today

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