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We. Are. FetLife!

Not to be confused with the Spartans.

Meet the Team

A beautifully diverse group of kinksters that care deeply about the community and FetLife's mission.

Liverpool, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Caretaker
West Flanders, Belgium
QA Specialist
Chicago, Illinois, United States
Caretaker
RshMbo 36M Roleplayer
Bratislava, Bratislava, Slovakia
Engineer
pavlo_qa_ 31Man Dom
Bratislava, Bratislava, Slovakia
QA Specialist
fastrider 33M Artist
Reading, Reading, United Kingdom
Product Designer
Novi Sad, South Bačka, Serbia
Product Designer
B-u-n-n-y 36GV Brat
Sofia, Sofia, Bulgaria
Caretaker
Dallas, Texas, United States
Customer Support Coordinator
Canada
Caretaker
Tdotlyn 44W sub
Canada
Kinktionary Curator
Pairadox 64M Master
Cajón, San José, Costa Rica
Legal
aseitas 29NB Sadomasochist
Philippines
Caretaker
JohnBaku 48M Dom
North Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
CEO
Ristrodin 34M Top
Rockanje, South Holland, Netherlands
Engineer
Teeka 28GF Smart Ass Sadomasochist
Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Caretaker
XxTinaxX 29F Brat
Portugal
People Operations
nfk 43Man Gentleman
Poland
Engineer
OldCrowShitShow 30FEM Fucktoy
United States
Caretaker
Anttiray 37M Kinkster
Kyiv, Ukraine
Engineer
-Hari- 40M Tickle Switch
Bath and North East Somerset, United Kingdom
Customer Support
Nanaimo, British Columbia, Canada
Engineer
Tree_Spoon 21NB Brat
Canada
Caretaker
iBon 37M Dom
Kraków, Lesser Poland Voivodeship, Poland
Engineer
OmgPru 38FEM
Antarctica
Caretaker Coordinator
Momma_G 60F Kinkster
Georgia, United States
Caretaker
2a3 36M Dom
London, Greater London, United Kingdom
Engineer
clairegalaire 21F Kinkster
Canada
Customer Support
MissJamilla 32F Bitch
California, United States
Caretaker Coordinator
CutieHoney 37F Vixen
Florida, United States
Caretaker Coordinator
Texas, United States
Caretaker
J_ 67M Switch
Maple Ridge, British Columbia, Canada
Caretaker
Vonmewis 46M Bratty Dom
Grenoble, Isère, France
Engineer
AltRoot 36M Switch
Sofia, Sofia, Bulgaria
Engineer
R4mon 34M Rubberist
Canada
COO
Svidna 32FEM Clown
Sofia, Sofia, Bulgaria
Caretaker
SickkPuppy 31F Sadist
British Columbia, Canada
Caretaker
TaenumPhuk 40M Brat Tamer
Belgrade, Stari Grad, Serbia
Engineer
Serbia
Customer Support

Diversity

47.2%

LGBTQIA2S+

25.0%

Gender Nonconforming

11.1%

BIPOC

FetLife's Mission

“Help people feel comfortable with who they are sexually.”

© Sinrael

Our Core Values

As a team we live by our values in everything we do.

Community Driven

  • Focus on projects that have the highest impact on the community relative to effort.
  • Make incremental experience refinements where the improvement is worth the relearning.
  • Listen to our members, understand where they are coming from, and then over-deliver.
  • Be an active member of FetLife so that you can better empathize with other members.
  • Be inspired by the community and its beautiful diversity.

Work Hard, Work Smart

  • Never stop looking for a better solution.
  • It is okay to make mistakes, just always make sure to learn from them.
  • Focus on our mission and goals, don’t get caught up in tasks.
  • Diagnose problems to get to the root cause.
  • Make sure to re-question assumptions.
  • When dealing with the same issue multiple times, find a permanent solution.
  • Take pride in, and ownership of, whatever you’re working on.
  • Don’t worry about looking good - worry about achieving our goals.
  • Always work on improving yourself and your craft.

Teamwork Makes The Dream Work

  • Hold each other to high standards and work through any disagreements.
  • Have thoughtful disagreements to both learn from, and increase the odds of, making good decisions.
  • Disagree, but when a decision has been made, move forward united as one team.
  • Team morale and smooth functioning take precedence over your need to be right - besides, you could be wrong.
  • If you run into a problem, reach out to someone who has the authority to solve your problem. Never complain or gossip.
  • Hold yourself and the people around you accountable, and appreciate the people around you for holding you accountable.

Communicate, Communicate, Communicate

  • Without exception, be respectful to each member of the team.
  • Listen and try to understand everyone’s viewpoint before reacting.
  • Be truthful and straightforward in your feedback with everyone.
  • Have strong opinions weakly held, while remaining open-minded.
  • Provide constant and accurate feedback to your teammates and the organization.

Do the Right Thing

  • Do it right, or don’t do it at all.
  • Doing the right thing is almost always more important than following a process.
  • Quickly recognize and admit mistakes when you’ve made them.
  • If something goes wrong, don't pass the buck, take responsibility.
  • Never put comfort ahead of success, it produces worse results for everyone.

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