Rumors Dungeon Night + Education: Playing With Power
Until: Sun, May 3, 2026·1:00 AM EDT
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Description
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This event is a 21 + Event. All guests must show a valid ID to enter and RSVP to attend
Event Location
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Rumors Membership Overview
https://fetlife.com/groups/292554/posts/30587358
Dungeon Rules:
https://fetlife.com/groups/292554/posts/28697756
Educational : PLAYING WITH POWER With @ArdenSolace
Do you enjoy playing with power exchange? Why does it light you up? Why is your idea of dominance / submission so different from the next person’s? How do you communicate the feels and the expression of dominance or submission that you’re looking for to a partner? Can you find it in a scene with a new partner, or only in a deep, intimate relationship?
Arden and Hara are relationship coaches and kink educators who live a 24/7 D/s lifestyle, and have been educating on authority transfer & power exchange dynamics since 2018. In this presentation, they’ll give you the secret decoder ring of power! The session offers a beginner-friendly map of the 4 Aspects of Dominance, and how they bring sometimes drastic and sometimes nuanced shifts to the feels and experience of “power.”
Whether you’re beginning to explore power exchange or highly experienced, you’ll learn to use the 4 Aspects framework to identify the dynamics that make your toes curl, name what you want with more precision, and communicate it in a way your partner(s) can actually hear.
From there, we’ll take it to scening and sex. You’ll learn how to apply the 4 Aspects in scene design, including how to express roles, build tension, negotiate consent and boundaries, and dial in the specific spice of power play that generates magnetic attraction for you and your partner.
Bring a notebook and pen, you’ll want to remember this one!
Event Schedule
6:30 pm Doors Open
7:30-8:30 pm Educational and Demonstration
8:30 pm Open Play Starts
1:00 am Dungeon Closes, Thank you and Goodnight!
Event Information:
Parking:
Free Parking is available onsite.
Dungeon Rules:
https://fetlife.com/groups/292554/posts/28697756
Rumors Dungeon Etiquette
https://fetlife.com/groups/292554/posts/30634794
Security:
Security Protocols post for event listing
Prohibited Items: no firearms , stun guns, water guns, gun replicas , tasers, mace/pepper spray ,outside alcohol, or illegal substances are permitted. Attempting to bring any of the items could result in being banned from future events.
Entry Security Checks: Mandatory security wanding and bag checks will be conducted for all individuals entering the building, including staff, volunteers, and guests.
Re-Entry Procedures: If you need to return to your vehicle, please note that you must repeat the security and bag check upon re-entry, applicable to everyone, including staff and volunteers.
Armed Security Presence: Our venue is staffed with professional armed security personnel who are dedicated to your safety. They will be easily identifiable, either stationed outside the building, near check-in areas during events, or patrolling the parking lot with a marked car.
Accessibility Information:
Our parking lot and venue are wheelchair accessible.
Notice About Colored Lighting and Music:
We do use colored lighting and music for our events, but we do NOT use strobe lights. We recognize that loud sounds can be overwhelming for some. To ensure your comfort, we provide complimentary earplugs at the front desk.
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Consent:
Be respectful of other people: Do not touch other people. Do not touch other people’s belongings. Do not touch other people without permission. Do not attempt to join or interrupt a scene without being verbally invited.
Dress Code:
Vanilla to the door, Inside everything goes past the check in area You Must dress vanilla or cover up in smoking area .
Playing Sober:
We ask all parties to play and negotiate scenes SOBER. Individuals cannot give consent under the influence. There is NO bar or alcohol or drugs permitted on the property