OBJECT OF HER DESIRE - A Femdom Soirée
The Inaugural Open Femdom Event Hosted by Domina Social Club
Until: Sat, Aug 8, 2026·2:00 AM AEST
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Description
OBJECT OF HER DESIRE - A Femdom Soirée
Domina Social Club's inaugural Open Femdom Event
Female desire leads. Submission follows.
Inspired by the private Domina Houses of Europe, Object of Her Desire is an immersive Female-led social and play evening centred on Female desire, authority, and power. Rather than a traditional play party or free-play environment, the evening has been carefully curated to place Female Dominance at the heart of the experience.
The focus of the night is the desires of the Dominant Woman—and the object of those desires, of course, is the submissive.
Guests will enter an elegant, welcoming, and distinctly Female-centred environment where Female Authority is recognised and respected. Some interactions may remain social, while others may develop into service, protocol, objectification, power exchange, or negotiated forms of play. Every dynamic is shaped by the individuals involved and guided by communication, consent, and mutual respect.
For Dominant Women and Femmes, the evening offers an opportunity to relax into authority without the expectation to perform, educate, entertain, or accommodate others.
For submissives, the expectation is simple: Do not pursue attention. Earn it.
Everyone Is Welcome
Domina Social Club welcomes all people at this open Femdom event who appreciate Female Dominance and Female-led dynamics.
Dominant Women and Femmes, submissive women, trans people, non-binary people, and people of all gender identities are welcome to attend. Whether you are experienced, curious, lifestyle-oriented, scene-based, or simply exploring, you are invited to join us.
All men are welcome provided they participate from a submissive or non-dominant position for the evening. This event is centred on Female-led power dynamics, and attendees are expected to respect and contribute to the atmosphere.
Above all, we ask that guests arrive with an open mind, a respectful attitude, and a willingness to support the theme and spirit of the evening.
Expectations for Submissives
By attending the event, submissives enter a hierarchical environment in which Dominant Women and Femmes hold the social authority of the space.
Within the theme of the evening, basic protocols may be expected when directed by a Dominant Woman, including kneeling, standing, fetching, holding, or other acts of service. Any physical, intimate, or erotic interaction always requires explicit consent and negotiation.
Submissives are expected to conduct themselves with courtesy, attentiveness, and respect. They do not approach Dominant Women requesting play, offering service, or attempting to negotiate interactions. Instead, they allow conversations and opportunities to develop naturally. Should a Dominant Woman wish to take an interaction further, she will lead that process.
Submissive Dress Code
As part of the Object of Her Desire theme, submissives are required to attend fully clothed in black attire.
This is intentional. The dress code supports both the atmosphere of the event and the Female-led dynamic at its centre. This is an evening of elegance and presentation. No blue jeans or white sneakers (black is ok)—casual daywear is not appropriate for the atmosphere we are creating.
Beneath your outer clothing, you may wear whatever you choose—panties, a chastity cage, clamps, lingerie, or whatever expresses your submission. However, these items are not to be visible upon arrival. Upon negotiation, should a Domina wish to reveal what lies beneath your clothing, that decision belongs to Her.
Sheer or semi-transparent garments, such as mesh shirts or fishnet layers, are permitted, provided nipples are covered, and the genitals and buttocks remain fully concealed.
Expectations for Dominant Women and Femmes
Object of Her Desire has been created as a space where Dominant Women and Femmes can relax into their authority. There is no expectation to play. No expectation to lead. No expectation to perform. You are simply invited to explore your desires and express them as you choose.
Fem Dominant Dress Code
Elegant. Seductive. Intentional. Elevated evening wear, fetish fashion, burlesque, leather, latex, and artistic self-expression are all welcome. This is an opportunity to embody your style of Dominance and present yourself in a way that feels authentic, powerful, and desirable.
House Slaves
For Dominant Women who are new to Femdom, attending alone, or unfamiliar with the environment, trained House Slaves will be available throughout the evening.
House Slaves serve the event itself and all Ladies present. They assist with practical needs, help facilitate introductions where appropriate, and contribute to the welcoming atmosphere of the event. Their role is to support the experience under the direction of the event hosts and the Ladies present.
Orientation and Safety Tour
For those who are new to Femdom and BDSM events, we will have a short orientation and safety tour to introduce you to the standards and expectations of kink spaces and the consent and safety protocols for engaging in BDSM and power dynamics.
Timeline
8:00pm – 9:00pm
Closed training hour for submissive members of Domina Social Club.
9:00pm
Doors open.
10:00pm
Last entry.
11:00pm
Featured scene performance.
2:00am
Event concludes and doors close.
Refreshments
This is a BYO event, and guests are welcome to bring their own refreshments for the evening.
Please note that this is not a drinking-focused event. Guests are expected to arrive sober and remain capable of making informed decisions throughout the night. Any person who appears intoxicated may be refused entry or asked to leave.
Smoking and vaping must take place off the premises and in accordance with venue requirements.
Refunds and Ticket Transfers
All ticket sales are final and non-refundable.
If you are unable to attend, you may privately transfer or resell your ticket to another suitable attendee. The original ticket holder must contact the event organisers before the event so that the name on the guest list can be updated accordingly.
Only the person whose name appears on the final approved guest list will be permitted entry.
Guidelines and Rules
Please take the time to review both the venue guidelines of Tether and the Domina Social Club Code of Conduct prior to attending. This event operates in accordance with both sets of standards to help create a safe, respectful, consent-focused, and enjoyable environment for all guests.
Tether Salon Rules:
https://tether.salon/rules
Domina Social Club Guidelines and Rules:
https://dominasocialclub.com/general-guidelines-and-rules-for-our-open-events/
Tip:
Humanitix does not share your credit card or payment information with event organizers. However, Humanitix requests, as standard, your name and email to go on the ticket so event organisers can identify you as the purchaser at the door. For this, you do not need to use your legal name or public email. You are welcome to use your Fetlife name and email for privacy.
And most importantly - Thank You!
Thank you for supporting Domina Social Club and helping bring this event to life. Every ticket purchased contributes directly to creating richer, more ambitious, and more immersive experiences for our community in the future.
A very special thank you to the Domina Social Club members who purchased tickets early (you know who you are 💋), making it possible to secure the venue and bring this event from an idea into reality. Your support has been invaluable.