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DOMINION September Edition

Time to get schooled

9 Going·27 Interested
Sep 12 at 8:00 PM
Until Sep 13 at 12:00 AM EDT
Toronto

Ontario, Canada

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Description

Dominion is an event for the glorious goddesses of the greater Toronto area and the submissives who worship them. This intimate, cocktail party-style event is an opportunity for dommes to meet, mingle, and chat. Hors d’ oeuvres and refreshments will be served by submissive guests, as well as a variety of other duties. If you're interested in future events, please join the Dominion group; [http://fetlife.com/groups/279879]


WHO SHOULD ATTEND?

Dommes who identify as female, trans women, gender non-binary (including genderfluid and genderqueer), two-spirit, and submissives of any or no gender are welcome to attend. Switches who identify as male must be submissive at the event. Cis-male doms are not permitted.


WHO SHOULD NOT ATTEND?

The Countess believes that Black Lives Matter, women deserve equal pay for equal work, Trans rights are human rights, abortion is healthcare, and sex work is work. If you disagree with any of these beliefs, we suggest you pursue other venues for entertainment.


CIS-MALE DOM ALERT:

There is a cis-male dom who lives at Raventop Manor. He may be handling door duties (including checking guests off the list, taking payment, and confirming ID) for the first hour of the event, after which he will retire. We understand that cis-male dom energy tends to overwhelm, and we can confirm that he will not be attending the event.


ALLERGY WARNING

Raventop Manor is home to two cats.


ATTENDANCE

Dominion is an exclusive and private event where attendance is restricted to previous attendees, and those who have been approved by the Countess. Those who have not previously attended will be sent a message on Fetlife containing instructions for vetting. If you do not respond to this message, you will not be approved. The address will be provided to accepted invitees at noon on the day of the event.


PARTICIPATION

Upon entry, submissive guests will select a wristband of either green, yellow, or red, the purpose of which is to inform all guests of your availability and limitations.

• Green - for submissives looking to fully interact with Dominant guests. Green indicates that the submissive may be ordered to perform any basic service* and subject to reasonable touching †. Unowned submissives must wear a green wristband

• Yellow - for owned/accompanied submissives allowed to play or serve with permission. Yellow indicates that the submissive is open to basic service* or reasonable touching†, but this must be requested beforehand.

• Red - reserved for owned/unavailable submissive guests. Red indicates that the submissive may not be touched or ordered without the permission of their domme (permission may be indicated by the submissive if the domme is unavailable or not in attendance).

*Basic service include fetching of drinks and hors d’ouvres and foot massage

†Un-negotiated genital touching, penetration, or heavy pain is not considered reasonable


PAYMENT

Advance payments can be made by e-transfer to [email protected]. When making an e-transfer, please:

  • Indicate which event you are paying for (Raventop Manor runs more than one event)
  • include your Fetlife handle in the note section of your e-transfer so we know who's paying.

Advance payments will only be accepted until 5:00pm the day before the event. If paying after this time, you will be asked to pay cash at the door.

PLEASE NOTE: We do not ask for payment before the vetting process is complete. Any payments made by invitees who do not end up being approved will not be refunded.


PROTOCOL

Dominion is a protocol event. Examples of the rules are:

• Subs do not speak until given permission.

• Only dommes are permitted to be seated on furniture. Subs stand or sit on the floor; if given permission, they may sit on the ottomans in order to serve.


RSVPs

No new RSVPs will be accepted after midnight on Wednesday before the event.


VOLUNTEERS

Free entry to the event for anyone able to donate their time in the following areas:

• Cleaning, set-up and food prep 6:00-8:00

• Replenishing food as needed 8:00-12:00

• Clean-up and washing dishes 12:00a-1:00a

We do not accept first-time guests as volunteers. No offers to volunteer will be accepted after midnight on Wednesday before the event.