Surrender: Wrestling and Beatdowns | NYC's Favorite Wrestling & Kink Party "MURDER" MYSTERY EDITION!
NYC's kinkiest queer wrestling party is back with a fun mystery game. Grapple, watch, cuddle, explore. Come as you are — leave sweaty, smiling and maybe with a prize!
New York City, New York, United States
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Description
Step onto the mats. Or don't. Either way, you're going to have a good time.
Surrender is NYC's ultimate wrestling and kink party — equal parts playful and deliciously sweaty. Whether you're here to grapple, watch, cuddle in the 420 lounge, browse vendors or just soak in the house party vibes, there's a spot for you on the mats and off them.
✨ This Edition: The Mysterious Case of the Uncanny Uppercut + Beatdowns by Goddess Ari (Dominatrix with 10+ years of Muay Thai experience)
👀 The Deets
Friday, Sept. 25, 2026
6:00–11:30 p.m.
📍 NYC near Union Square (address sent with registration)
⚠️ Accessibility note: 3rd floor walk-up
All Advance Sales (Early Bird) Discounts are sold out!
Demo Bottom Ticket sold out!
Online ticket sales have been extended to 9/25 at noon!
One demo bottom will be used by Goddess Ari for demonstration purposes during the workshop. Please arrive no later than 6 p.m. and be ready to get consensually punched! The workshop runs from 6:30-7 p.m. and will be lead by Goddess Ari. *Good hygiene practices are mandatory.* For this honor, choose the Demo Bottom ticket.
Get a 2-for-1 deal on general admission when you buy through Eventbrite.
Get 20% off our ticket order (max. 5) using promo code ICEOUT when you purchase on Plura.
🕐 Schedule
6:00 p.m. Doors open
6:30 p.m. Workshop/Demo: Beatdowns with
7:00 p.m. Consent Circle & Introductions
7:30 p.m. Party Begins — Kink Tasting area opens
11:30 p.m. Party ends
Special guests:
The Domme Kat
What to Expect
💥 Open Mat Wrestling
Pins, pro-style, grappling, submission, BJJ, rope wrestling, tickle fights, fantasy — you call it. Newbies and wrestling-curious folks are very welcome. A wrestling partner is not guaranteed, but the mats have a way of bringing people together. Show up curious and see what happens.
🛡️ Consent & Safety
Referees on the mats. LED-armband consent monitors easy to spot if you need support. Color wristbands so everyone knows who's open to play and who prefers not to be approached. Photos and video only in the designated corner — the rest of the space is phone-free. We practice RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) — please check in with yourself before you dive in. Wrestling carries real physical risk, so participate at your own pace and within your own risk profile.
Sparky Klown will be wrestling, doing bondage and other hijinks with balloons. If you have latex allergies, please let us know so we can restrict play.
🛍️ More to Love
Vendors, snacks, a 420 smoke lounge/cuddle puddle and plenty of good humans to meet.
Invited vendors:
🎟️ Tickets
Prices increase as tiers sell out — early is cheaper.
- Workshop + Party tickets are the standard ticket and include both.
- Workshop-only and party-only tickets also available.
- Door tickets: Workshop only $30 or full night $80 (register online for the address and full info)
- All online sales close Sept. 25 at midnight.
- No refunds.* No discounts at the door.
Pay-What-You-Can tickets are available for SWs and queer/transgender people of color or financial hardship. Email theDommeKat@gmail.com for the code. (Limited availability — donations unlock more.)
Can't swing the cost? Email theDommeKat@gmail.com about volunteer opportunities — community references preferred. Volunteer position is not guaranteed.
Can't make it? Sell your ticket or pass it on — just email theDommeKat@gmail.com with the new attendee's name, FetLife URL (if applicable) and email address.
🤝 Community
Katarina reserves the right to remove anyone whose actions don't align with our values or community guidelines.
This is an educational and entertainment event. All activities are consensual and professionally facilitated.
ABOUT THE DOMME KAT
Katarina "The Domme Kat" Pierce is a ProDomme, kinky wrestler, event producer, porn performer and producer, kink educator and adult entertainer in NYC. With Tiana
When she’s not choking people with her thick thighs, Katarina produces kinky, queer-inclusive events and hosts
Known for sensual Domination, her casually cruel trash talk, eloquent humiliation style and her unbelievable curves, she’s just as happy face sitting as she is slapping willing victims with her perfect size 8.5 feet.
Nervous about your first play party? The Domme Kat's got you covered!