- women* only - Sapphic BDSM Meet&Play Party @ Paradoxx
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Description
We are excited to announce our first sapphic BDSM party! We try to cover the most important topics below, but please DM us in case of any questions. :)
What to expect
Our location has multiple floors. The area downstairs will be dedicated to socializing. There you can have a drink, chat to others and join in some get-to-know-each-other games. BDSM play is only allowed on the upper levels. In the play area you will find play furniture, bondage suspension points and a cosy space for relaxation and aftercare.
We will have glow sticks in different colors that you can wear as bracelets to indicate:
- Green: Talk to me.
- Orange: Please don't talk to me now.
- Pink: I want to play as a domme/top.
- Yellow: I want to play as a sub/bottom.
- Blue: I am exploring.
You can put them on and take them off whenever you like.
Who can attend
The space we want to create is intended for (trans and cis) women as well as woman-aligned non-binary and intersex people. The space is not intended for (trans and cis) men including mtf-crossdressers and sissies.
Entry is only allowed for people who purchased a ticket AND who are listed as going or interested.
To protect the comfort and safety of our community, we are personally reviewing every request. We are only approving guests who we feel are genuinely in line with the values and concept this event stands for. If you request to join our event and we don’t know you yet, especially if your profile has limited information, we may send you a quick message to learn a little more about you before approving your request.
What to wear
Fetish wear is encouraged, but any stylish outfit will do, feel free to bring multiple outfits. There are lockers where you can store your belongings and outfit options. You can come in vanilla wear and change at the location.
What to bring
This is a DIY event. Bring your own toys, lube, safer sex supplies.
Challenge: Bring your favourite impact toy if you have one. If not, any creative/unexpected potential future favourite impact toy will do. :)
Around 14:30 we will play a little game of Guess the impact toy. Everyone who is interested is welcome to join.
The rules are simple:
- Anyone who’s comfortable with others using their impact toys can bring them along for the game.
- You can participate as a top, a bottom, or both.
- Anyone who wants to participate as a bottom will get the chance to ask one top, or all of them, to try one of the toys on them.
- As a bottom, you can exclude any toys you don’t like.
- The top(s) being asked can decide whether they want to participate. If they agree, they’ll choose one of the non-excluded toys and try it on the bottom (starting slowly, of course!). The bottom’s job is to guess which toy is being used! ;D
What if something feels wrong
Kink is a community, therefore we all are responsible to look out for each other and keep it a safe space for everyone. We encourage clear and peaceful communication among participants. Should you feel unsafe or bothered by something, feel free to reach out to the organizers or the staff.
How to get there
It’s a daytime event, so you can get there and back by train. Paradoxx is about a 15-minute bus ride (line 17) or a 30-minute walk from Antwerpen-Centraal.
If you prefer to come by car:
- You can park on the street right in front of Paradoxx. Just note that street parking is limited to three hours. After three hours, you’ll need to start a new 15-minute free parking session, after which you can purchase another three-hour parking ticket.
- Alternatively, there’s an underground car park called Godefriduskaai nearby. A day ticket costs 27€ however.
- For those who don't mind walking a little, there is an interparking at F. Rooseveltplaats 12, 2060 Antwerp. A day ticket costs 7.50€ there, when PREBOOKED. It is about 20 minutes on foot to the venue.
Doors will be open from 12:00 to 13:30. If you are running late, please let us know.
Tickets
Tickets can be purchased via the following link: https://www.ticketkantoor.nl/shop/SapphicBDSM2610. Please note that tickets are non-refundable. Entry will only be granted to people who purchased a ticket AND who are listed as going or interested.
This is a non-profit event. Our ticket pricing is aimed to cover the rental price of the venue. Possible remaining funds are going to be used for the improvement of future events. For people for whom the regular ticket price of 35€ is a financial barrier, we offer a limited contingent of reduced tickets.
Accessibility
The venue has stairs.
Drinks and snacks
Drinks are available at the bar. You can pay by cash or card. Please drink responsibly; excessive drinking will result in exclusion from the party.
The venue doesn't serve food, but we are going to bring some snacks to share.
Disclaimer
The hosts and DM's are not liable for any personal injury, illness, theft, loss, or damage to personal property. The organizer reserves the right to deny access to any person who does not fit the target group and/or remove any person whose behaviour is unsafe, disruptive or not in line with the houserules.
House rules
To help everyone feel safe, comfortable, and welcome, please keep the following house rules in mind:
- Phones and cameras: Please leave your phone in your locker. Photography and video recording are strictly forbidden.
- Prohibited play: Waxplay, fireplay, extreme blood play, and toilet play are not permitted.
- Safeword and awareness: “Red” is our universal safe word. If you feel uncomfortable at any time, or notice something that concerns you, please speak to our dungeon monitors.
- Drugs and alcohol: No illegal drugs are permitted. Alcohol is available at the bar, so please mind your consumption and don't play when intoxicated. Anyone who is visibly intoxicated or behaves inappropriately will have to leave the event.
- Consent: Seek clear, enthusiastic consent before beginning or joining a scene. Touching yourself while watching others also counts as participation. No solo wanking. Only yes means yes.
- Respect: Please treat everyone with kindness and respect. Rude, aggressive, or pushy behaviour will not be tolerated and results in removal from the event. Don't interrupt the play of others (except in case of something being visibly wrong or an emergency).