The Cabinet of Curiosities: A HoD Kinky Salon
Where pleasure meets rebellion
Sint-Amandsberg, East Flanders, Belgium
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Description
A kinky salon created and co-curated by Piero Flor and Lavinia, bringing together conversation, curiosity and guided play.
You do not need to already know your way around kink. You do not need to identify as dominant, submissive, kinky enough, experienced enough, or anything in particular. You can arrive with a long list of curiosities, one question you have never quite known whom to ask, or simply the suspicion that there is more to kink than what you have encountered so far.
The day comes in two parts. In the afternoon, we talk about kink. In the evening, we play with it. You can join either part separately, or stay for the whole Cabinet.
Inspired by Delphine Seyrig, actress, activist, and disobedient muse, House of Delphine is a sanctuary for sensual liberation, radical curiosity, and embodied freedom. This is a place where elegance, sensuality, and playfulness intertwine, inviting you to explore beyond societal boundaries, reconnect with your body, and celebrate desire as an act of liberation.
PART I - CURIOUS CONFESSIONS ~ 2-5pm
Stories, questions & conversations from the less explored corners of kink.
There are plenty of things people are curious about and surprisingly few places where we can actually talk about them. Maybe there is a fantasy you have never said out loud. Something you once experienced and still think about. A practice you keep hearing about but do not understand. A question about dominance, submission, fetish, s.ex work, relationships or kink culture that feels too specific, awkward or personal for ordinary conversation. Curious Confessions is an afternoon salon built around those things. You might wonder what a professional domina actually does all day, why someone finds a particular fetish irresistible, what a D/s relationship looks like or what people do with fantasies they never intend to enact.
We move through playful conversations and mingles: circles where experienced voices share while the rest of us listen and ask, and smaller exchanges to wonder out loud together. Contribute a confession anonymously, bring a question, share from experience, or simply listen. What we talk about will partly depend on who is in the room. Whether you are brand new and a little shy, or experienced and happy to share, there is a seat here for you. Nobody is required to confess anything, disclose personal information, or be an expert. Curiosity is enough. The afternoon is curated by Piero Flor.
PART II - CURIOUS POSSESSIONS ~ 6:30-10pm
Servants, Pets & Objects.
What changes when, for a little while, someone stops being simply another person in the room and becomes your servant, your pet, or your object? Possession, here, is a role we play with: temporary, negotiated and chosen.
Curious Possessions is a guided practical exploration of three doorways into power, surrender and role play. A servant can be given a task, made to wait, asked to anticipate a need. A pet can be handled, trained, cared for, praised, ignored or called back. An object can be positioned, displayed, used, admired, or simply left exactly where its owner put it.
None of these roles has to look one particular way. They can be playful or serious, tender or demanding, erotic or completely non-s.exual. They can involve very little physical contact and still create a surprisingly strong shift in how two people relate to each other. We begin with simple guided experiments and gradually build towards shared play, where the room becomes its own temporary collection of owners, servants, pets, objects and other curious creatures.
You do not need to know whether you are "a Dominant" or "a submissive". You do not need experience with pet play, service, objectification or BDSM. You can explore from either side, try something unfamiliar, or simply observe, and you are always free to choose your level of participation. The evening is curated by Lavinia.
LAVINIA - CO-HOST & CO-CURATOR
Lavinia is an architect turned conscious kink facilitator, curious about how environments shape what becomes possible in and between bodies. As an architect, she built spaces for people to live in. As a conscious kink facilitator, she designs spaces for people to feel alive in. For the past two years, she has been facilitating group processes and working 1:1, using kink and BDSM as ways to explore unconscious patterns, embodied responses and relational dynamics. Her playground is made of intensity, sensation, desire, power, awkwardness, surprise and tenderness, and of what becomes possible when we stop following familiar scripts.
PIERO FLOR - CO-HOST & CO-CURATOR
Piero is an intimacy coach and facilitator with over fifteen years of experience holding spaces for touch, connection and sensual exploration. Trauma-informed and consent-centered, Piero is the anchor who makes a room feel safe enough to open up. With kink, Piero comes as a fellow explorer rather than an expert, hosting the afternoon with genuine curiosity and the beginner's questions many of us quietly carry. That openness is exactly what makes the Cabinet a place where anyone can wonder out loud.
CONSENT, DISCRETION, AND WHAT THIS IS
Curious Confessions is built around curiosity, conversation and voluntary sharing. You never have to disclose anything personal to take part. Because some of what is shared may be personal, discretion matters: stories and experiences stay with the people who choose to share them, and are not repeated outside the room.
Curious Possessions is a guided kink workshop, not a play party. The focus is guided exploration rather than s.exual play. To keep the container clear, underwear stays on throughout and there is no pene.tration. Touch, positioning, commands and other interaction stay within what has been agreed between the people involved. Consent is part of the practice itself: we work with clear negotiation, ongoing communication, and the possibility to pause, adjust or stop at any point. A no does not require an explanation, and agreeing to one thing never implies agreement to something else.
WHY COME?
House of Delphine offers a rare space for:
- Safety & Freedom: A carefully held environment where you can explore sensuality and intimacy at your own pace, with clear boundaries and active consent as our foundation.
- Embodiment & Expression: Reconnect with your body through movement, touch, and presence. This is an invitation to feel, not perform.
- Rebellious Connection: Challenge societal norms around desire, pleasure, and sensuality. Here, your curiosity is rebellion, and your pleasure is political.
- Healing & Transformation: Experience intimacy as a pathway to self-discovery. With dedicated aftercare and attentive guidance, the House supports your journey beyond the day itself.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
The House of Delphine centers female sensual liberation and queer curiosity. We welcome women, queer folks, couples, and duos who approach this space with respect, care, and genuine curiosity.
To nurture a balanced and comfortable atmosphere where everyone can explore freely, we thoughtfully manage our space. Single cisgender heterose*ual men are warmly welcome, with entry prioritised for other guests first.
If you seek embodied freedom and authentic connection, you belong here.
GOOD TO KNOW
- Dresscode: We believe in freedom, but we invite you to make an effort. Dress to impress. You don't need to follow social guidelines or gender norms, but we ask that you step beyond your everyday clothes. Wear something that makes you feel s.exy and alive. The dresscode itself is an invitation to transform and explore.
- Age: All ages are welcome! As this is an adult only event, we require you to be at least 21 years old.
- Alcohol: This is a non-substance and non-alcoholic event. For the safety and comfort of all, anyone under the influence of alcohol or drugs will not be admitted or sent home.
- Dinner Break: Bring your own, or order together with us from a spot nearby.
- Belonging & Accessibility: House of Delphine is LGBTQI+ friendly and welcomes BIPOC community members. We strive to create an inclusive space where everyone feels safe and at home. People of all bodies, abilities, and backgrounds are welcome. If you have a disability, chronic illness, or specific access needs, please contact us when booking so we can support you in fully enjoying the evening.
- The Team: Our dedicated team creates a safe, welcoming space throughout the evening.
- Guardians hold the safety and consent culture of the space.
- Co-Hosts guide you through exercises and experiences.
- Stewards curate the atmosphere and take care of the practical flow of the evening, while also participating as guests themselves.
- Co-Curators host and organise the space, led by your lead-curator Piero Flor, an experienced intimacy coach and facilitator. Each team member is educated in consent, care, and in creating the magic that makes House of Delphine feel both free and held.
- Photography/Phones/Film Policy: To protect privacy and presence, phones are not allowed during the event. Photography and filming will be handled exclusively by professional creators. You will only be included in images or video if you have explicitly given your consent, and this is respected with great care and attention.
- Pre- and aftercare: Your journey begins before you arrive. We'll prepare you with all the information you need, including an intimacy and safety guide, so you feel ready and held. Throughout the evening, our dedicated team is here to support you: whether you need guidance, a quiet moment, or simply someone to connect with. After the event, we continue to care for you with thoughtful aftercare resources, guided exercises, and space for reflection and feedback. We also provide access to professional support for individual guidance, both before and after the event.
Our values: read the Charter for the world we are building together: https://houseofdelphine.be