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November ELSE munch for kinksters who aren't cisgender

If you're wondering if you're trans enough to come, OMGZ WELCUM HOME WE'VE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU. If you're cis, don't come.

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Sun, Nov 15, 2026, 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM PST

San Francisco, California, United States

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Wow, it's been a while since I hosted an ELSE munch, hasn't it? My life got rather . . . busy XD (Summer does that to me a lot!)


What's ELSE? It's an organization for any kinksters who aren't cisgender! We word it that way very specifically, to welcome not only transgender folx, but also nonbinary folx who don't identify as transgender, agender folx who feel like they wound need a gender to be transgender, people with various cultural gender identities that don't really super duper fit in with colonialist constructs of cisgender/transgender, etc.


Basically: If you're wondering whether you're welcome at our munch, WELCUM HOME WE'VE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU WHAT TOOK YOU SO LONG??? and if you're cisgender, don't come!


Come hang out with a bunch of kinky trans folx, build community and fellowship, and join what is CERTAIN to be a lovely and lively conversation!


ELSE hosts an active Discord server, our monthly in-person munches, the occasional play party (like St4tic back in June!), and hopefully soon virtual munches, too!


We need each other now, more than ever (who keeps us safe? WE KEEP US SAFE), and I have learned about so many trans communities in the kink community since helping to start ELSE, but none of which are as broad as we are. My hope right now is that ELSE could serve as kind of a meeting ground or coming-together space for all these groups, though of course some folx will just want to connect with and through ELSE. In order to do that, though, we need to build our munches ever larger and ever stronger! See you there?