STING NYC | A Gay Men's Spanking & Impact Play Party
Gay Men's Spanking & Impact Play party
Manhattan, New York, United States
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Description
STING NYC
Men's Spanking & Impact Play Party
Saturday, November 21, 2026 | 1:00 PM – 6:00 PM
A men's spanking party built around impact, connection, and a well-earned red ass.
STING NYC is a men's spanking and impact play party where hands, paddles, straps, and other implements take center stage.
From playful swats and over-the-knee spanking to heavier impact and extended punishment scenes, STING gives you room to explore spanking at your own intensity and pace.
Whether you're looking to give a good spanking, receive one, or find someone who enjoys both, STING brings together men who share a passion for spanking and impact play.
THE EXPERIENCE
Spanking Is the Heart of the Party, but BDSM Play Is Welcome.
Give, receive, switch, watch, learn, negotiate pickup play, or simply spend time around other men who share the interest.
There's something exciting about a room full of men who appreciate spanking. The sound of paddles meeting skin, the anticipation of being put over someone's knee, the exchange of control, and the satisfaction of a well-earned red ass.
Whether your interests lean toward playful spanking, traditional discipline, punishment scenes, or heavier impact, there's room to explore.
Our play space includes:
- 12+ spanking stations
- Multiple spanking benches
- St. Andrew's Cross
- Equipment for a variety of spanking positions
- Additional BDSM play equipment
- A separate social area for conversation, downtime, and aftercare
Impact can stay focused on spanking or expand into other negotiated BDSM play, including restraint, sensation, power exchange, and related scene elements.
What About Sex?
Sex is not the focus of STING, but sexual activity may be incorporated into a scene when it has been clearly negotiated between participants before the scene begins.
Negotiate your scenes, respect one another's boundaries, and enjoy the experience at your own pace.
WHO IT'S FOR
For Men Who Enjoy Spanking Other Men.
STING welcomes gay, straight, bisexual, queer, and trans men who connect, play, or cruise with men.
This is a men-centered, men-only play space, not a mixed-gender party.
Whether you're:
- An experienced spanker looking for someone to put over your knee
- A spanking enthusiast who enjoys receiving
- A switch who appreciates both sides of the paddle
- Curious about spanking and looking to explore
- Interested in punishment, discipline, or power exchange
- Simply looking to connect with other men who share your interests
There's room for you at STING.
You don't need years of experience to participate. Whether spanking is brand new to you or something you've explored for years, come with curiosity, respect, and an understanding of consent and negotiation.
You are welcome to socialize, watch with consent, make connections, and explore negotiated pickup play.
No one is obligated to play with anyone. Every interaction begins with mutual interest, communication, and consent.
HOW THE AFTERNOON FLOWS
1:00 PM — DOORS OPEN
Check in, settle into the space, reconnect with familiar faces, meet other attendees, and begin negotiating your afternoon.
Whether you've arranged a scene beforehand or are hoping to meet someone new, take time to connect and discuss your interests.
1:45 PM — WELCOME + ROOM AGREEMENTS
A brief review of consent, etiquette, safety expectations, and the flow of the afternoon.
OPEN PLAY
Following our welcome, negotiated spanking and impact play begins throughout the room.
Enjoy the space, explore different implements and positions, negotiate scenes, socialize between experiences, and share in the energy of men who appreciate a good spanking.
Coming later? You're still welcome!
Essential room agreements will be reviewed with you at check-in.
6:00 PM — PARTY ENDS
COME READY TO PLAY
Bring Your Favorite Implements!
Whether you prefer a bare hand, leather strap, paddle, or something with a little more bite, bring the equipment you enjoy using.
Suggested items include:
- Spanking paddles, straps, and implements
- Personal BDSM toys and gear
- Restraints and bondage equipment
- Lube and safer-sex supplies
- Comfort items and aftercare essentials
A shareable snack or drink for the communal table is welcome but never required.
A Few Important Reminders:
- All play must be consensual and negotiated between participants.
- Respect everyone's boundaries, personal space, and established dynamics.
- Sexual activity must be negotiated before it becomes part of a scene.
- Alcohol is welcome in moderation.
- No illegal drugs.
- No photography without consent.
- All attendees must be 18 or older.
We provide the space, equipment, and atmosphere. You bring your implements, your interests, and your intention to enjoy the afternoon.
EVENT DETAILS
Date: Saturday, November 21, 2026
Time: 1:00 PM – 6:00 PM
Location: Studio125
113 East 125th Street
New York, NY
Admission:
- $30 — Solo Admission
- $50 — Partner Admission (2 people)
Payments Accepted at the Door:
Cash • Venmo • Cash App • Zelle • PayPal
TICKETS & REGISTRATION
CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE TICKETS
Advance registration is available through our ticketing platform.
COMMUNITY AGREEMENTS & ACCESSIBILITY
Studio125 is grounded in the values and community practices developed through The Kink Collective and our People Before Kink philosophy.
We encourage all guests to familiarize themselves with our community expectations before attending.
Accessibility Notice:
Studio125 is located on the second floor and requires climbing approximately 20 steps. There is no elevator access, and the space is not wheelchair accessible.
STING NYC
Good Company. Good Spankings. Well-Earned Red Asses.
Hosted at Studio125 NYC