ADVANCED: XL Show 'n Tell Sex Ed & Play Party - with Reid Mihalko
Description
❤️This is an advanced XL event, 11.00-22.00h, combining a Red Play Party with a workshop (MIND THE PREREQUISITES!). Thé perfect play party when you feel adventurous and want to meet people to play with, alone or with others. Experience sex education like you never had before - live demos on live bodies, followed by the well-known juicy free-flow.
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This is a special edition of the Red Play Party you know from Wilrieke Sophia - this time with guest facilitator Reid Mihalko (USA).
⚠️ Prerequisite: you must have attended a Red Play Party with Wilrieke or Reid, and be comfortable with nudity and explicit action. No exceptions.
TL:DR / MOST IMPORTANT NOTES
➤ Mind the prerequisites!
➤ Live demos on naked bodies. Be comfortable with that. We do not guarantee practice buddies.
➤ These spaces zoom in on your ease & challenges. Be comfortable with that.
➤ Practical info by email a few days before. Sign up with your most used email address (unsubscribed = we can't reach you), or have your ticket buyer forward it.
➤ Bring a waterproof sheet or blanket, mattress-size. No sheet = no play.
WHAT THE DAY LOOKS LIKE
The doors open half an hour before the starting time. Make sure to be on time! Once we have started we cannot let latecomers in!
ABOUT THE WORKSHOP: SHOW 'N TELL SEX ED
Chasing the next exciting thing - a new toy, position, technique, bigger scene - is easy, and it can be incredible. But it's just as easy to skip the simple skills that make every intimate experience better: small adjustments in touch, pressure, rhythm, breath, attention, and positioning - the stuff that makes a lover ask "how did you do that?" These foundations aren't boring, they're where the magic lives.
This is a full-day, clothing-optional pleasure practicum where education comes first. You watch demonstrations, ask questions, and - if you choose - practice with others while Reid and Wilrieke coach (watching is perfectly valid participation).
MORNING SESSION (11:00-14:00) - Energetic Sex, Kriyas & Orgasms (fully clothed)
We start slow: how pleasure moves through the body, and how working with your nervous system - not against it - deepens connection and arousal. Through demonstrations and optional exercises:
- Pelvic floor awareness and pleasure
- Breath, movement, and energetic connection
- Presence in your own body
- Reid's "Chakrahs within Chakrahs" framework
- Kriyas and energetic orgasms
- Simple ways to build pleasure before clothes come off
Participation is always optional. Watching, changing your mind, and quietly listening all count.
LUNCH (14:00-15:00)
Bring your own or join a relaxed potluck.
AFTERNOON SESSION (15:00-18:00) - Show 'N Tell... Then Try (clothing optional)
Reid and Wilrieke give live, explicit demonstrations with consenting demo partners - real bodies, real communication, real problem-solving. Ask anything: how experienced lovers adjust when something isn't working, ask for feedback, or transform an experience with a small change in angle, rhythm, pressure, or breath.
Afterward, the room becomes a practice space. Explore what you've learned with your own partner(s) while Reid and Wilrieke circulate to coach. Nothing is required - practice, watch, take notes, practice solo, pause, or simply observe. Consent, communication, curiosity, and respect are the foundation of everything.
Demonstrations may include (depending on group interest, time, and consent):
- Oral pleasure for all bodies
- Vulva, vagina, penis, and prostate pleasure
- Hand techniques and toy integration
- Flaccid penis pleasure
- Fingering techniques
- Deep-throating: breath, pacing, comfort, communication
- Strap-on play and pegging
- Reid's Flying Squirrel technique
- Positions and ergonomics
- Skillful use of hands, mouth, hips, breath, pressure, rhythm, attention
- Reading body language and responding in real time
- Giving and receiving feedback during play
- Small adjustments, big differences in pleasure
You can request demonstrations - if time and consent allow, we'll include them.
Buy your ticket with someone to guarantee a practice partner, or look for one at the event (we'll help, but can't guarantee a match). No partner? Witness, observe, take notes, or practice solo - all count as participation. Your body, your boundaries, your pace, always.
ABOUT THE PLAY PARTY
The play party starts with an etiquette talk, with space for your questions. We slowly start the free flow with dancing and a few exercises, transitioning into a space where you design your own experience. The team is available for support and inspiration, or a chat.
All genders, bodies, and orientations are welcome. This day has no expectations or requirements - a space to be expressed and celebrated, to explore! You are welcome with all that you bring and who you are, at this moment.
This event is NOT for you if:
. you are not willing to accept another person's 'no'
. you lack experience in s-positive spaces and/or workshops on topics like tantra, kink, BDSM, cuddling, or other forms of intimacy. You should be comfortable (though absolutely not obliged to participate in - on the contrary) with unclothed people and explicit action in the space. (When in doubt, message Wilrieke to check if this is for you.)
. we actively stand for inclusion. No racism, discrimination, misogyny, ableism, or shaming of bodies, sexualities, gender etc are tolerated. If you cannot commit to this, this is not your community.
. you are looking for easy sex. You won't find it here.
This is a RED event.
FOR WHO IS THIS EVENT?
This event welcomes folks from all walks of life. We are LGBTQIIA+ informed (Wilrieke and most of their team identify as such), slut-friendly, trauma-informed, and non-monogamy informed. White folks are overrepresented in our team, and life experiences are colored through that lens; we come from different backgrounds in health, wealth, neurodiversity, gender, and sexual orientation.
We welcome people with specific needs as much as able-bodied folks - feel free to reach out.
👋 ABOUT REID MIHALKO (USA)
@ReidAboutSex / Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship educator, helping adults build self-esteem, confidence, and accountability in their relationships and sex lives - with humor, personal stories, and real sexual health information.
In early 2018, people came forward during #MeToo with harms Reid had caused. Reid stepped down from teaching and completed a formal, year-long restorative justice accountability process. His apology and resources are public. Since then, he points people toward restorative and transformative justice resources and experts.
Reid's workshops and lectures have reached 60,000+ people worldwide; his YouTube videos have 5 million+ views. He's appeared on Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling, Netflix, Dr. Phil's The Doctors, Fox News, and in Newsweek, GQ, and The Washington Post, across thirteen countries and seven languages.
Reid also founded Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, helping sex educators build business skills to reach more people and earn a better living.
Instagram: https://instagram/ReidAboutSex | TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@ReidAboutSex | Facebook: https://facebook.com/ReidAboutSex | YouTube: https://youtube.com/ReidAboutSex
👋 ABOUT WILRIEKE SOPHIA
Wilrieke Sophia (they/them) is a sex & intimacy educator, (TEDx) speaker, advisor & coach for creative makers and scientists, author, and founder of Exploring Deeper and Cuddle Workshops International.
Their work focuses on empowerment through self-knowledge, radical self-inclusion, the embodied experience of boundaries and desires, and a serious practice of consent - grounded in trauma awareness and neuroscience, lived out in experiential, connective spaces. They collaborate with artists and scientists, and work as a supervisor and mentor.
With their project Red Flags in Workshops, Wilrieke creates free materials on accountability, abuse, and power dynamics in the intimacy and wellness communities.
www.exploringdeeper.com
www.redflagsinworkshops.com
PRACTICAL INFO:
The week before the workshop, you’ll receive an email with full details on what to bring, where to go, and how to prepare. Sign up with your correct email and check your spam folder if you don’t see the mail three days before the event.
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