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SSS Free Fundamentals of Negotiation workshop

LIMITED SPACES, workshop in EN

41 Going·65 Interested
Wed, Nov 25, 2026
6:00 PM - 11:00 PM EST

Montréal, Quebec, Canada

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Description

The Super Secret Society is proud to invite you to a free FUNdamentals of Negotiation workshop given by @mr_O


Open to everyone but space is limited - please mark yourself as going ONLY if you actually plan to attend. We will accept requests to attend until capacity is met - after which we will start a wait list.


This workshop teaches some fundamental principles of negotiations for play. The topics discussed apply whether the scene in a few minutes long, or days long, and covers many styles of play. Time permitting, workshop attendees are invited to participate in mock negotiation sessions.


Topics covered include:


• Some purposes of negotiation: safety, consent, protection, planning

• Opt in vs Opt out consent models

• From the top perspective vs bottom perspective

• Physical, verbal, psychological, sexual, emotional limits

• Risks and pitfalls

• Avoiding misunderstandings: written vs verbal communications

Schedule of event:


6 PM - 7 PM: Doors Open

7 PM - 9 PM: Workshop

9 PM - 11 PM: Informal Mix and Mingle

Stay for an informal Munch, grab a drink, a bite, and meet fellow kinksters!


Note that the exact address will only be given to those attending, only those marked as attending on this event page will be let in due to limited seating.


About the instructor:


Mr O is a creative sadist with a love of medical play, a penchant for violent grappling scenes, and a very cute bum. Having spent over two decades as a jiu jitsu competitor and instructor, he has found ways to apply his knowledge of body mechanics to kinky play and shares that in his teaching. Active in the Canadian BDSM scene since 2005, he regularly puts on workshops internationally as well as locally in the Toronto, Montreal and Ottawa areas on subjects including wrestling, grappling and medical play. With an engineering based background and scientific mind, he is known for continually inventing new devices and ways to hurt people “for science”. When he’s not being nice he can be a bit mean. And vice versa

Mr O believes strongly that successful scenes start with careful negotiation, and so teaches workshops and private classes on negotiation and consent.