Finding your Sadomasochism
Find out what things really delight you about sadomasochism (from either side of it).
Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
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Description
Details
Date: December 3, 2026
Time: 6:30 PM – 9:30 PM
Format: Class, Workshop, Discussion
Who is this for: Queer and Friends
Fee: $35 (Low barrier options available at the door)
Doors open: 6PM
Duration: 3 hours
Prerequisites: None
Material to bring: Note taking materials
For individuals or pairs: Solo, Pairs, Groups, Any constellation
We tend to see certain images over and over in popular media: sadists who are cold, detached, brutal; masochists who are self-sabotaging and weak. As kinksters we know there are many more ways to be both of these things, but what are they and how do you figure out which fits you best?
Are you someone who likes pushing people emotionally and seeing their face squirm, or would you rather hit hard and ask questions later? Do you want to be quickly beaten into submission, or strung out for a long time before you get what’s coming to you? Is your inner sadist a schoolyard bully or a strict interrogator? As a masochist are you a pathetic punching bag or a steadfast devotee? In this workshop, we will explore ways to find out what things really delight you about sadomasochism (from either side of it).
Facilitator
Dusty Rhodes
queer, trans, leather | he/him (not a man)
teaching, training, & torturing in yvr
Fineprint
Accessibility:
Mobility:
Studio Allegory is on the ground floor and there are no significant steps anywhere in the space. A 2” step exists to enter one of the two tying areas. This step is passable by common wheelchair models.
Chairs can be provided for classes and events.
Hygiene:
There is a single washroom for all with a handle bar and an air hand dryer. We have unscented soap, and we run an industrial air purifier which monitors the air quality within the studio automatically and cleans the air automatically.
Masks are available at the studio and we have regular events that are mask only.
Neurodivergence:
Studio Allegory has a quiet room equipped with fidget toys, colouring books, blankets, noise cancelling earmuffs, and stuffed animals. Upon request we can provide closed captions for our workshops running on a screen.
Music during events: The volume is on a minimum and usually barely audible amongst normal conversations.
Food:
Studio Allegory has a kitchen corner with a kettle and a coffee maker, as well as a mini fridge and a microwave.
Food bank: There is a food program at Studio Allegory to provide basic items for community members in need of food.
Cancellation and refund policy:
Cancellations by Studio Allegory
If Studio Allegory cancels an event, ticket holders may choose between a full refund* or a ticket transfer to a similar future event.
Cancellations by Participants or no-shows
- More than 48 hours before the event: Ticket holders are entitled to a full refund*.
- Between 48 hours and the start of the event: We offer a 50% refund** or a ticket transfer to a similar future event.
- After the event has started or for no-shows: No refunds or transfers can be offered.
For special events, this refund policy may be subject to change. In this case, a separate refund and cancellation policy will be posted on the event page directly.
A full refund consists of the amount paid minus $3.50CAD administration fee.
** A 50% refund consists of 50% of the amount paid minus $3.50CAD administration fee.