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Men'z & Friend'z: Unrestrained

Your limits are yours to set. Your desires are yours to explore.

2 Going¡13 Interested
Dec 11 at 8:00 PM
Until Dec 12 at 1:00 AM EST

Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

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Description

Step beyond the ordinary and get UNRESTRAINED.


Men'z & Friend'z: Unrestrained is a night for bisexual, gay and bi-curious, humans, their partners, and friends who are ready to explore their darker, kinkier side of play. Whether you're in to leather, bondage, domination, submission, sensation, power exchange, or simply curious about what lies beyond your usual boundaries, this is your invitation to explore.


Come dressed to impress, dressed to submit, dressed to dominate, or simply dressed to play. Bring your curiosity, your confidence, and an open mind.


Tonight. Leave your inhibitions at the door.


🐦‍🔥ABOUT THE PHOENIX:🐦‍🔥

The Phoenix is a members-only private club, a safe space for Kink, BDSM, and sexy play! You must be a member to enter the club and attend events. To become a member, you must be vetted.

Condoms & lube, drinking water, popcorn, fresh sheets, fresh towels, and an amazing environment are all provided. There are two dungeons available downstairs, as well as an aftercare room just down the hall. The first dungeon has a pentagram bondage rack, a medieval restraint chair and ceiling restraint system (non-suspension). The second dungeon has 2 suspension-ready hard-points in the ceiling, a St. Andrew’s cross and a spanking bench. A small selection and variety of tools are available for member use. Both dungeon spaces have a 45 minute time-limit on the rooms, as indicated on the sign-up whiteboards outside each room, and members are encouraged to sign up for a time-slot to ensure they have a dungeon to play in. The Aftercare Room has a sign-up whiteboard also, with blocks of maximum 30 minutes. Upstairs, we have our lounge and social space, our sexy, newly renovated bathroom featuring an 8-Person waterfall transitionless shower and a glory hole! (Both standard glory hole and reverse glory hole) There are also 2 bedrooms upstairs, The Pink Room and The Play Room. The pink room also has a 30 minute time-limit, so ensure you sign up for that space as well. All rooms with beds have the fresh towels and sheets, and it is a rule that you change your sheets with fresh ones after you are done using the space, and put yours in the provided laundry basket.

⚠️As mentioned above, this is a Safe Space and we strive for inclusivity and education in the BDSM, kink, exhibitionism, monogamous and ethically-non-monogamous lifestyles. There are strict rules to follow for attending events. The rules are posted around the club, and we place the highest priority on safety, respect, consent and communication.⚠️

You are not allowed to touch someone without explicit verbal consent from that person, even by placing a hand on their arm or shoulder and they are not allowed to touch you without the same consent. All other rules stem from this line of thinking. We want it to be a safe space for all and have zero tolerance for consent-violation. The host is in the space for your safety. You are able to go to any of them if you have any questions or anyone makes you feel uncomfortable. Those wishing privacy are asked to sign up on the whiteboard outside the room and close the door (with the exception being the door to the social room and the PlayRoom, these doors MUST remain open at all times). A closed door is to be respected - no one knocks, opens the door, nor enters the space (with the exception of staff). For exhibitionists, a chain or rope is provided for each of the rooms, indicating that others will be allowed to watch but not participate, unless previously invited. There is to be no speaking to nor interrupting the participants of the play/scene, etc. Additionally, you may also leave the door open so others can enter the room, with the same previous rules still in effect (no interruption or participation without clear invitation by the participants).

When you have your tour, you will receive all of this information in detail, as well as see where all of the rules signage is posted throughout the Club.

👗DRESS CODE:👗

•Members are expected to dress in a manner appropriate for going out for an evening of entertainment. Members are allowed to dress in any manner of their choosing which falls under the acceptable recommendations.

•Acceptable (including, but not limited to): formal attire, suits, waistcoats, dresses, skirts, dress shirts, dress pants, designer jeans, lingerie, corsets, kink & fetish wear, clothing fitting the theme of the evening’s event and nudity.

•Not-acceptable (including, but not limited to): dirty/torn/ragged clothing, sweatpants and exercise gear, items with offensive or political content.

•The staff will have final say as to what is acceptable dress. Members who arrive in clothing not deemed acceptable by the staff will be asked to change or refused entry.

🍷ALCOHOL AND DRUGS:🍷

•We are a private club and do not serve nor sell alcohol or other drugs. Individuals who wish to partake in these items may do so of their own accord and must do so legally and responsibly.

•Individuals who partake in these items on their own must be of the legal age to do so. •No hard drugs are allowed on the premises.

•In order to consent, one must be sober. Members who become intoxicated WILL be asked to leave to ensure their safety.

❓FAQ❓

•Membership cost: -Single woman/NB/GNC person: 40$/year -Couple: 80$/year -Single Male: 100$/year

please note, each event also has a cover charge

•Guest passes?: Guest passes are available to single women and couples for any event. It is at the discretion of the host whether or not single men will be granted a guest pass (this is dependant on the ratio of men to women present at the event, guest passes for single men must be requested via email ONLY, guest passes will not be given to single men who show up to an event without prior permission). Guest passes are an additional 10$/person on top of the evenings cover charge. guest passes are available to single men for all “Bi-Guys Night” events •Vetting process?: ALL vetting occurs via email ONLY. To request to be vetted to attend an event, please email info@thephoenixottawa.com

•Payment methods?: We accept cash or etransfer. There is also an ATM on site.

•Age range: our members vary in age from 19 to 76 with the average age being mid-to-late 30 to late 40s/early 50s

•Disclosure of STI/D results: We are an adults only club and expect our members to act as such. While we do not require proof of clean test results we expect all members to be open and honest with their partners and/or playmates about their sexual health and history.

•Tips for beginners:

*Consent and communication between yourself and any partner(s) is key. *Take things slowly, do not rush in to anything for fear of “losing your nerve”.

*Remain open and honest with yourself and others.

*Try not to compare your journey to anyone elses.

*Do we have to participate?: Absolutely not. There is no pressure to participate in any activity/conversation, etc.

*Consent?: Consent is paramount at The Phoenix. You are in no way obligated to interact with, converse with, or play with anyone you do not wish to. If someone at the club is pressuring you, making you feel uncomfortable, or ignoring your boundaries/consent please immediately inform the host and they will assist you. *Do you serve alcohol?: The Phoenix is not licensed to sell or serve alcohol. Members are permitted to bring their own as long as it is consumed responsibly. The club has glassware and a fridge available for use.