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The Soft Social Salon

Soft socializing. Open play. No script. This is for anyone tired of meeting people through a screen. Who wants a room built for mingling, playing or relaxing.

3 Going·13 Interested
Wed, Dec 30, 2026
6:30 PM - 11:00 PM CET

Antwerp, Belgium

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Description


Soft socializing. Open play. No script.

This is for anyone tired of meeting people through a screen. Who wants a room built for mingling, playing or relaxing.


Open to all Individuals

Tickets sold per person

included Drinks & Snacks


Exact Adress disclosed after ticket purchase - 7 min walk from Antwerp South train station.


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About

Every last Wednesday of the month, the loft opens for something more relaxed: a sober salon where mingling, playing, and observing sit side by side. Rope play, creative scenes, BDSM dynamics: the loft is open to all of it.


The evening is capped at 26 people. Included in the ticket price is drinks, snacks a fully equipped playroom. Towels/latex gloves available upon request. phones stay in bags and on silent.


House rules:

  • No penetration
  • No blood play
  • No scat play

Clear communication. Enthusiastic consent. Mutual respect.

We assume anyone attending & playing has read the full Event copy on our website and knows how to apply it.


Discover

The loft: A bathroom that doubles as a changing room, several cozy corners to settle into, and a full toolrack (ropes, impact implements, a set of restraints) available to use. Bring your own tools if you’d rather work with your own. Four suspension points, a bondage daybed, and a wet zone round out the loft. Towels are available on request.


Timings:

  • Arrival: doors open at 18u30, doors close at 19u
  • Salon: 18u30 to 23u
  • Last call: a bell rings at 22u30, marking 30 minutes to close
  • Close: 23u

We encourage creative play that steers away from the escalator to orgasm; the loft is a playground, enjoy it! The salon is for socializing, playing, and relaxing.


For Who?

Individuals & couples welcome; a low-threshold way to meet likeminded people and get to know the SPNKD loft. All genders, sexualities, bodies, and constellations belong here.


This is a self-governing evening. Come consent-aware: know your own boundaries, give and receive a “no” without shame, and take responsibility for when to engage, pause, or ask for support from Eveline or a SPNKD team member.


Your Host: Eveline

General manager of SPNKD and long-standing community member, Eveline hosts the evening alongside a SPNKD team member. She’s passionate about creating containers for exploration and adult play, and felt there was a gap: real-life spaces that actually encourage community. In a world quick to trade real connection for parasocial substitutes, Eveline built this evening as its counterpoint, a comfortable, soft setting where adult play and in-person community are both welcome, and neither has to explain itself. 



Discover the Full FAQ on the event website.

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