How do I post a status update?

A status update is a short post that appears in the activity feeds of your friends and followers and on your profile.

1. Go to your activity feed, or the "Activity" tab on your own profile
2. Select "What's on your kinky mind?" at the top and write your update
3. Optionally, add extras:
   • "Add Pictures" ("Add Pics" on mobile) to attach up to 5 pictures. Learn more in Can I add pictures to a status update?
   • "Add Audio" to record or upload audio
   • "Add Poll" to ask a question with answer options. Learn more in How do polls work?
4. Choose who can see it under "Privacy": "FetLifers", "Friends & Followers", or "Friends"
5. Press "Say It!" (or "Ask!" if you added a poll)

Status updates can be up to 690 characters.

If you leave the page before posting, we'll keep what you wrote for a day. Learn more in Does FetLife save my unfinished posts and comments?