How do I see or remove my crushes?
Your crushes are listed on your Crushes tab, which only you can see.
See your crushes
- Go to your friends and followers page
- Open the Crushes tab
The tab lists everyone you have a crush on. Mutual crushes are marked "It's Mutual!".
The Crushes tab only appears when you have a crush on someone or someone has a crush on you.
See how many people have a crush on you
Below your list of crushes, we show how many other people have a crush on you. You'll only see the number. You'll find out who someone is only if you crush on them too.
Remove a crush
- Go to your Crushes tab
- Open the menu on the member's card
- Select "Remove Crush"
- Confirm by clicking "Yes, remove crush"
You can also do this from the member's profile. Click "Crushing On" and select "Remove Crush". For a mutual crush, open the dropdown arrow on the "Friends" or "Following" button instead.
The other person is not told. If the crush was mutual, it's no longer mutual and "It's Mutual!" no longer shows, but any "It's Mutual!" notifications already sent stay.
Blocking someone also removes any crushes between the two of you, along with your "It's Mutual!" notifications about each other.