How do I turn Crushing On on or off?
Crushing On is on for new members. If you've been a member for longer, it may be off until you turn it on.
Turn it on or off
- Go to your Privacy Settings
- Find the "Crushing On" section
- Check "Allow others to crush on me" to turn it on, or uncheck it to turn it off
When Crushing On is on, other members can crush on you, and you can crush on other members who have it on too.
You can also turn it on by crushing on someone. If Crushing On is off when you confirm a crush, we turn it on for you.
What happens when I turn it off?
You'll be asked to confirm with "Yes, disable". When you turn it off:
- All your current crushes are permanently removed, both the crushes you made and the crushes others made on you.
- Any "It's Mutual!" notifications you've already received stay.
- Nobody can crush on you until you turn it on again.
If you turn it back on later, you start fresh with no crushes.
Can I control the "It's Mutual!" notifications?
Yes. In your Notification Settings, find "Crushing On" and choose whether to get a push notification or email for "Someone you are crushing on is also crushing on you".