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I don't want everyone to know where I live, what do I do?

You can choose who sees your city, state or province, and country by:

  1. Going to your privacy settings.
  2. Scrolling to the "Location Visibility" section
  3. Choosing "All FetLifers", "Friends Only", or "Only Me" for "City", "State / Province", and "Country"

Your choice saves right away. Below the options, you can preview how your location looks to different people.

To keep your profile out of the Places section completely, read How do I keep my profile out of the Places section?

If you really want to be off the radar, you can always just specify your country as "Antarctica”. There are more kinksters living in Antarctica than you'd think!

You can update your location by:

  1. Going to your profile settings.
  2. Selecting your location from the menu in the location section
  3. Submitting the form