What is the "For You" feed?

"For You" is a personalized feed that sits next to "Following" on your activity feed. It shows posts from across FetLife, including from people you don't follow yet.

We pick posts for "For You" based on the tags you follow, plus your gender and orientation. Posts with tags you've muted are left out. Following a few tags you're interested in makes a big difference. The more tags you follow, the more variety you'll see.

How do I personalize "For You"?

1. Open "For You"
2. Open the personalize page:
   • On desktop: select the sliders icon to the right of the "For You" title
   • On mobile: tap the "For You" tab again and choose "Personalize"
3. Select the tags you want to see more of
4. Under "Other tags you follow", press "+ Add" to search for any other tag
5. Under "Tags you muted", press "+ Add" to hide posts with a tag
6. Press "Back to For You" when you're done

You can also go straight to the personalize page.