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What is the Kinktionary?

The Kinktionary is FetLife's community-written guide to kinks, fetishes, and the words we use for them. It's more like a set of guidelines and a lot less like a dictionary of definitions.

Anyone can read the Kinktionary. Members who are logged in can help improve it:

Every suggestion is reviewed before it goes live. Members whose suggestions are approved appear on the Kinktionary "Leaderboard".

When a role, gender, or orientation on a profile or in your activity feed has a Kinktionary article, its definition links to it. See How do I see what a role, gender, or orientation means?

Searching, suggesting, and the Leaderboard are only available in a web browser, not in the official FetLife app.

How do I search the Kinktionary?

  1. Go to any page on the Kinktionary
  2. Click the "Search Kinktionary" box at the top of the page
  3. Type what you're looking for
  4. Click on any of the results

If nothing matches, you'll see an option to suggest a new page about it.