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2023/10/26

NOT Looking For

We are excited to announce that you can now specify what you are NOT looking for on FetLife.

When you specify what you are NOT Looking for and a non-friend goes to start a new conversation with you, a pop-up will appear and list what you are NOT Looking for.

Then based on what you are not looking for, the person can choose if they want to start a new conversation with you or not.

You can specify what you’re NOT Looking for by following these steps:

  1. Visit your Profile Settings
  2. Select what you are “NOT Looking for”
  3. Click “Update Profile”

We hope this will help people better connect with kinksters who share similar expectations and make FetLife a more comfortable place for everyone.

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