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BDSM & Kink Events

San Diego California, United States

San Diego's kink community takes its social life out onto the patio. Cocktail mixers, kinky coffee and ice cream socials, and rope classes keep things hands-on and sociable.

All Events BDSM Party Educational Social Conferences
Tomorrow Wednesday

12:00 PM

VETERANS DAY MUNCH: SIP, SING & STRIKE!

A little day drinking, a little karaoke, a little bowling… why not?!

SOCIAL Free

6:30 PM

IncognitoSD presents The Exchange: A Group Discussion on D/s Dynamics

Monthly in Vista

EDUCATIONAL
November 12 Thursday

7:00 PM

Ember Society: Intermediate – Chapter 8: Elevated Scene Building

Intermediate Series – Chapter 8: Elevated Scene Building

EDUCATIONAL
November 14 Saturday

6:00 PM

Valkyrie’s Valhalla

Kinky for a good cause

SOCIAL Free

7:00 PM

Foundations of Rope

Start your Shibari journey!

EDUCATIONAL

7:30 PM

Ecstatic Dance - San Diego/Vista - The Ecstatic Tribe!

A judgment-free dance journey in Vista — move your body, free your mind. Every 2nd Saturday of the month!

CONFERENCE / FESTIVAL
November 15 Sunday

7:45 PM

Shibari Life Drawing

make art with us!

EDUCATIONAL
November 16 Monday

7:00 PM

HOUSE OF BLACK | ETHICAL NON MONOGAMY DISCUSSION GROUP

ETHICAL NON-MONOGAMY DISCUSSION GROUP This discussion group is open to anyone who is curious about or already active in a consensual non-monogamous (ENM) lifestyle including open relationships, swin...

EDUCATIONAL
November 19 Thursday

7:00 PM

IncognitoSD presents Kinky Karaoke

Get your vocal chords hot and your outfit hotter and join us for an evening of high energy and intimate vibes at Kinky Karaoke every other Thursday! • 2+ open dungeons. • Karaoke upstairs in a sexy 7...

BDSM PARTY
November 20 Friday

7:00 PM

IncognitoSD Presents Focus Fridays: Whips & Dragon Tails

Come join us for part 5 of our Focus Friday class series with host and co-owner, Mr. McCoy (IG @FlogFather_Fet).  This is a focused class, open to Incognito SD members & non-members. • Doors c...

EDUCATIONAL