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What are the tabs in my activity feed?

Your activity feed has three tabs: "Following", "For You", and "Events".

Following

"Following" shows activity from the people you're friends with or follow, and from the groups you're a member of. It opens on "All Activity", which includes everything: new posts as well as loves, comments, RSVPs, and more.

You can narrow it down to one kind of activity:

  • All Posts: only new posts, without loves and comments
  • Groups: activity from your groups
  • Statuses: status updates
  • Pictures
  • Videos
  • Writings
  • AMA: Ask Me Anything posts
  • Audio

On desktop, these options appear in the left sidebar under "Following". On mobile, go to the "Following" tab, tap "Following" again, and choose an option.

For You

"For You" is a personalized feed of posts from across FetLife, including from people you don't follow. It's based on the tags you follow and your gender and orientation. Learn more in What is the "For You" feed?

Events

"Events" shows upcoming events near you. It uses the location you last searched for on the Events page, or the location on your profile if you haven't searched. Select "change" next to the location to pick a different place.

If you're organizing or attending upcoming events, you'll also see them at the top of this tab.