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More like guidelines and a lot less like definitions.


Common kinky abbreviations and acronyms.

Types of Play

Identity & Body Types

A full list of the gender abbreviations used on FetLife profiles can be found on the main gender page

  • Ace - Asexual
  • BBW - Big Beautiful Woman A beautiful woman with a large figure.

  • Enby - Non-binary - (the phonetic spelling of N B)

  • FLINTA Female, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans & Agender.

  • GGG - Good, Giving and Game - A person who is an experienced, selfless lover and welcomes new sexual experiences

  • NB - Non-Black or Non-Binary.

  • TP - Tight Pussy - A vagina with well toned internal muscles that feels tight when inserted into.

Relationships & Dating

  • DILF - Dad I'd Like to Fuck - An attractive older man, usually a father.
  • D2F / DTF - Down To Fuck - Interested in having sex.
  • LDD - Long Distance Dynamic
  • LDR - Long Distance Relationship
  • MBL - Married But Looking - The person is married but is looking for other relationships
  • MILF - Mother I'd Like to Fuck - An attractive older woman, usually a mother.
  • PILF - Parent I'd Like to Fuck - An attractive older person of any gender, usually a parent.
  • QPP - Queer Platonic Partner
  • RA - Relationship Anarchy


  • PRICK - Personal Responsibility In Consensual Kink. - A consent practice
  • RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink - A consent practice
  • RASH - Risk Aware Shit Happens - A consent practice
  • SSC - Safe Sane Consensual - - A consent practice
  • YKINMK / YKINMKBYKIOK - Your Kink Is Not My Kink / Your Kink Is Not My Kink But Your Kink Is Okay. - A way of expressing disinterest in something without invalidating someone else's enjoyment of it.

Sex Work Terms

  • GFE - GirlFriend Experience - A service (often paid for) where someone agrees to act like a girlfriend without being in a relationship e.g: chat, cuddle, kiss.
  • PSE - Porn Star Experience - A service (often paid for) where someone agrees to be a very athletic and energetic sexual partner

Other Shorthand

  • 304 - Hoe - When read upside down on a calculator 304 looks like the word 'hoe.' Used on certain platforms to bypass adult word filters.
  • D&DF / DDF - Drug and Disease Free - A person who has no sexually transmitted infections and doesn't consume recreational drugs.
  • GGG - German Goo Girls - a style of pornography made popular by John Thompson. Involving bodily fluids like Bukkake, Watersports ing Blowbang or Gangbang setting
  • IRL - In Real Life
  • ISO - In Search Of
  • STI / STD - Sexually Transmitted Infection / Disease

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