Common kinky abbreviations and acronyms.

Types of Play

• ABDL - adult baby diaper lover
• BBBJ - Bareback Blowjob - Oral sex without the use of a protective barrier (e.g: a condom).
• BD - Bondage & Discipline
• CBT - Cock and Ball Torture
• CEI - Cum Eating Instructions - Instructions given by a dominant partner to direct a submissive to consume semen.
• CFNM - Clothed Female Naked/Nude Male - one-sided nudity
• CMNF - Clothed Male Naked/Nude Female - one-sided nudity
• CNC - Consensual Non-Consent

• DD/lg - Daddy Dom with little girl usually referring to ageplayer roles.

• D/s - Dominance/submission

• FLR - Female Lead Relationship

• HFO - Hands Free Orgasm

• JOI - Jerk Off Instructions

• M/s - Master/slave or Mistress/slave

• OTK - Over The Knee [Spanking](

• OWO - Oral Without Condom - Usually indicates a preference for a blow job without the use of a condom for protection

• Painal - Painful Anal Sex

• PNP - Party & Play

• SM - Sado-Masochism

• TPE - Total Power Exchange

Identity & Body Types

A full list of the gender abbreviations used on FetLife profiles can be found on the main gender page

• Ace - Asexual

• BBW - Big Beautiful Woman A beautiful woman with a large figure.

• Enby - Non-binary - (the phonetic spelling of N B)

• FLINTA Female, Lesbian, Intersex, Non-binary, Trans & Agender.

• GGG - Good, Giving and Game - A person who is an experienced, selfless lover and welcomes new sexual experiences

• NB - Non-Black or Non-Binary.

• TP - Tight Pussy - A vagina with well toned internal muscles that feels tight when inserted into.

Relationships & Dating

• DILF - Dad I'd Like to Fuck - An attractive older man, usually a father.
• D2F / DTF - Down To Fuck - Interested in having sex.
• LDD - Long Distance Dynamic
• LDR - Long Distance Relationship
• MBL - Married But Looking - The person is married but is looking for other relationships
• MILF - Mother I'd Like to Fuck - An attractive older woman, usually a mother.
• PILF - Parent I'd Like to Fuck - An attractive older person of any gender, usually a parent.
• QPP - Queer Platonic Partner
• RA - Relationship Anarchy

Concepts

• PRICK - Personal Responsibility In Consensual Kink. - A consent practice
• RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink - A consent practice
• RASH - Risk Aware Shit Happens - A consent practice
• SSC - Safe Sane Consensual - - A consent practice
• YKINMK / YKINMKBYKIOK - Your Kink Is Not My Kink / Your Kink Is Not My Kink But Your Kink Is Okay. - A way of expressing disinterest in something without invalidating someone else's enjoyment of it.

Sex Work Terms

• GFE - GirlFriend Experience - A service (often paid for) where someone agrees to act like a girlfriend without being in a relationship e.g: chat, cuddle, kiss.
• PSE - Porn Star Experience - A service (often paid for) where someone agrees to be a very athletic and energetic sexual partner

Other Shorthand

• 304 - Hoe - When read upside down on a calculator 304 looks like the word 'hoe.' Used on certain platforms to bypass adult word filters.
• D&DF / DDF - Drug and Disease Free - A person who has no sexually transmitted infections and doesn't consume recreational drugs.
• GGG - German Goo Girls - a style of pornography made popular by John Thompson. Involving bodily fluids like Bukkake, Watersports ing Blowbang or Gangbang setting
• IRL - In Real Life
• ISO - In Search Of
• STI / STD - Sexually Transmitted Infection / Disease