Anorgasmia

Anorgasmia is the ongoing or reoccurring difficulty, delay, or lack of orgasm during sexual stimulation. There are many causes, including medications, aging, or hormonal fluctuation. It can also be the result of one's psychological or emotional state, or be caused by the side effects of other medication.

Dealing With Anorgasmia

If you're struggling with orgasm, try masturbating solo and/or with new toys designed for that purpose. Experimenting with masturbation can help people better understand what works for them without pressure. Medical help can also be an option if the reason for anorgasmia is a hormonal imbalance, or a side of effect of other medication.

It is important to recognize that many people with anorgasmia still can and do enjoy sex, even if orgasm doesn't happen. For some people with anorgasmia, shifting their goal for sex away from orgasm toward mutual enjoyment can help.

Anorgasmia and Kink

Many anorgasmic people in kink will focus on their fetish or kink as the path toward sexual or erotic pleasure, without the need or desire for orgasm. Partners should communicate about their feelings around orgasm, and whether it's a priority (or possibility) for them.