Cilice
A cilice is a type of clothing or wearable accessory designed to cause physical pain and/or discomfort. In BDSM, the most common forms are metal chains or bands with inward-facing spikes, often worn around the upper thighs. Depending on the design and how tightly they're worn, cilices may cause constant discomfort or only become painful when the wearer moves, sits down, or applies pressure to them.
Cilices are most often associated with masochists who enjoy experiencing pain or discomfort. However, they can also be used in Dominant/submissive relationships as a form of discipline, endurance, or obedience. For example, a submissive might wear a cilice at their Dominant's request as a reminder of their submission.
Types of Cilices Used in BDSM
Modern cilices come in several forms, including:
- Metal chain cilices: Made from interlocking metal links with inward-facing spikes or prongs that press against the skin. These are commonly worn around the upper thighs and may cause constant discomfort or become more painful with movement.
- Spiked strap or belt cilices: Made from adjustable fabric, leather, or synthetic straps fitted with inward-facing metal or plastic spikes. The adjustable closure allows the wearer to change the fit and pressure.
- Modular cilices: Feature removable or interchangeable spikes or spike sections, allowing the wearer to customize the number, placement, and intensity of the pressure points.
Origins of the Term Cilice
Cilices were originally garments or undergarments made from coarse material or animal hair, sometimes called hairshirts, worn close to the skin to cause physical discomfort.
The word cilice comes from the Latin "cilicium." This is believed to be named after Cilicia, a region in ancient Asia Minor (modern-day Turkey) where coarse cloth made from goat hair was produced.
Historically, hairshirts or "sack cloth" worn by ancient Israelites as a sign of mourning, humility, or repentance for sin. In Christianity, cilices became associated with mortification of the flesh, a religious practice involving voluntary physical discomfort or self-denial as an act of penance, discipline, or spiritual devotion.
Over time, cilices also took the form of metal chains or bands, sometimes with inward-facing points designed to press against the skin. These were worn discreetly beneath ordinary clothing.
Some Christians continue to wear cilices for religious purposes today, although the practice is uncommon. In modern BDSM, similar devices are used for consensual pain play, masochism, submission, and discipline rather than religious penance.
Safety and Consent
Unlike many other BDSM implements, cilices are worn on the body and can produce discomfort over an extended period. Because they can cause bruising, skin damage, or circulation and nerve problems, they should be used cautiously and never tightened enough to restrict circulation.
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