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Jilling Off

Jilling off is a slang term for masturbating used specifically for women or people with a vulva. The phrase plays off “jacking off,” replacing “Jack” with “Jill.”

Origins of the Term

Jilling off can be traced back to the late 1980s. It likely emerged in a queer social context, where the term "jack and jill party" was used for a mixed gay/lesbian group masturbation party.

By the early 2000s, the term was showing up in Urban Dictionary and had emerged as broader internet slang. Google Search data suggests the term became popular online around the mid 2000s, then peaked and decline in use after 2015.

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