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Kinktionary

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Flow State

Flow state is a state of deep focus and immersion in an activity, where a person becomes fully absorbed in what they are doing. In this altered state, the person may lose track of time or even their surroundings. In kink and BDSM, flow states often occur when someone becomes completely engaged in a scene, skill, sensation, or dynamic.

A flow state can be experienced by Tops, bottoms, Dominants, submissives, switches, or people engaging in kink without any power exchange. For example, a Rope Top may become absorbed in the process of tying, a sadist may become focused on delivering impact, or a bottom may become deeply immersed in the sensations of a scene.

Some kinksters use "flow state" as a broader alternative to terms like Domspace or subspace. The experiences can overlap, but flow state emphasizes engagement with the activity itself rather than a particular power exchange.

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