Non-Binary Terms Of Endearment

Ideas for titles/honorifics and endearments which can be used for non-binary partners (aside from "Dominant" and "Master).

For submissive / Bottom types

Affectionate endearments

• (my precious) kinkling
• MINE
• good (little) sub/subby/mir/swirl/enby/queer/brat
• good'en
• follower
• little monster
• loyal subject/adoring fan/servant/attendant
• young enby
• human/helper
• little/special/sweet/precious one
• treasure/prize
• poppet
• (my shooting) star
• light/sunshine
• muse
• dear/darling/dearling/dearest
• my heart/lovely/beauty/beloved/joy
• cutie (pie)
• sweetheart
• baby/babe
• love
• boo
• angel
• theyngel
• queerling/queering
• bubble
• pumpkin
• bean
• peanut
• tater tot
• marshmallow
• fluff
• cupcake
• puddin'
• cheesecake
• dumpling
• (gold) nugget
• hun/honey/honeybee/honeybun
• casserole/cannoli/croissant
• muffin/strumpet/streudel/tart
• bite/tidbit/tastie
• sugarplum
• sweetie/sweets/sweetness/sugar
• hotness/hot mess/hottie
• puddle
• shithead
• delight
• (fruits, i.e. juicy peach)
• (other food names)
• (sour patch) baby
• (good/naughty) child/babe
• pupil/student
• ward/charge
• servant/helper/cleaner
• devotee/devoted/follower/one of my flock
• brat/joker
• baddie/naughty one
• prisoner
• gremlin
• hooligan
• wee beastie
• critter/creature
• bête
• tiger
• velociraptor
• little monkey
• squirrel/mouse/(other small furry creature)
• my kitten/pup/rabbit/bunny/bunni/piggy/pony
• honey bunny/badger
• my little dove/hawk
• pet
• prey
• (other animal names)
• doll
• plush
• snuggler/squishy
• canvas
• target
• instrument
• drum
• pack animal
• holder/support
• property
• plaything
• good thing
• poor thing
• object
• test subject/experiment/(science) project
• bootblack
• fucker
• fucknugget
• bitch (=beautiful individual that causes happiness/horniness)
• darkling
• goofball
• dork
• trickster
• (human) stress ball
• fidget/chew/squeaky/devoted toy
• scratching post
• (something that culturally resonates with the s-type)
• (a personal nickname)

Derogatory endearments

• (good/sweet) bitch/slut/baby/whore
• little shit
• (fresh/thick/juicy/stinky/hungry/tasty/rare) meat
• (mother)/fucker
• fucktoy/fuckdoll/fuckpet
• (pain/fuck/love) bucket/pail/pocket
• sleeve/cock holster/hole
• chattel
• chew toy
• (useful) object
• thing
• ashtray
• foot stool
• furniture
• mop
• rag
• toilet
• (clean) slate
• punchbag
• noise-maker
• wriggly-thing
• meat sack
• beast
• monster
• worm
• creature
• wimp
• scaredy-cat
• loser
• fuck-up
• perv(ert)
• peon

For Dominant / Top Types

Honorifics & affectionate endearments

• Ruler
• My Liege
• Sovereign
• (their) Majesty
• (their) Highness
• Your Grace
• Regent
• Thempress/Themperor
• Thane
• Director
• Enabler
• Ringleader
• Your Honor
• Adored/Sweet One
• My/Guiding Light
• One Who Must Be Obeyed
• Boss/Trainer/Manager
• Leader
• Director
• Chef
• Commander (in Chief)
• Chief
• Captain (O Captain, my Captain)
• Knight
• Coach
• Teacher/Professor
• Pilot
• [other professional title]
• Zir
• Mxtress/Mxtrex
• Owner
• [Toy-] Collector/Curator/Wielder/Whore
• [Doll] Maker
• Fae
• Predator/Hunter
• Tormentor/Jailer
• Sacred/Divine One
• Deity
• Goddexx
• Caretaker
• Daddi/Zaddy
• (My) Love
• Darling/Dearling/Dearest/Dear
• My Tallness
• Queerling
• Cruel/Dark one
• Pain-Bringer
• Mean
• Monster/Beast
• Asshole*
• (Sadistic) Bastard*
• Fucker*

*Perhaps only for the brave (and foolhardy)

For In-Scene Switches:

• comrade
• neighbor
• partner/lover
• co-conspirator
• friend
• darling
• sib(ling)

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Original Article Reference

Tussled. (Dec 2022). Non-binary terms of endearment for scenes. Available at this URL. Accessed on 10/13/23.