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Non-Binary Terms Of Endearment

Ideas for titles/honorifics and endearments which can be used for non-binary partners (aside from "Dominant" and "Master).

For submissive / Bottom types

Affectionate endearments

  • (my precious) kinkling
  • MINE
  • good (little) sub/subby/mir/swirl/enby/queer/brat
  • good'en
  • follower
  • little monster
  • loyal subject/adoring fan/servant/attendant
  • young enby
  • human/helper
  • little/special/sweet/precious one
  • treasure/prize
  • poppet
  • (my shooting) star
  • light/sunshine
  • muse
  • dear/darling/dearling/dearest
  • my heart/lovely/beauty/beloved/joy
  • cutie (pie)
  • sweetheart
  • baby/babe
  • love
  • boo
  • angel
  • theyngel
  • queerling/queering
  • bubble
  • pumpkin
  • bean
  • peanut
  • tater tot
  • marshmallow
  • fluff
  • cupcake
  • puddin'
  • cheesecake
  • dumpling
  • (gold) nugget
  • hun/honey/honeybee/honeybun
  • casserole/cannoli/croissant
  • muffin/strumpet/streudel/tart
  • bite/tidbit/tastie
  • sugarplum
  • sweetie/sweets/sweetness/sugar
  • hotness/hot mess/hottie
  • puddle
  • shithead
  • delight
  • (fruits, i.e. juicy peach)
  • (other food names)
  • (sour patch) baby
  • (good/naughty) child/babe
  • pupil/student
  • ward/charge
  • servant/helper/cleaner
  • devotee/devoted/follower/one of my flock
  • brat/joker
  • baddie/naughty one
  • prisoner
  • gremlin
  • hooligan
  • wee beastie
  • critter/creature
  • bĂȘte
  • tiger
  • velociraptor
  • little monkey
  • squirrel/mouse/(other small furry creature)
  • my kitten/pup/rabbit/bunny/bunni/piggy/pony
  • honey bunny/badger
  • my little dove/hawk
  • pet
  • prey
  • (other animal names)
  • doll
  • plush
  • snuggler/squishy
  • canvas
  • target
  • instrument
  • drum
  • pack animal
  • holder/support
  • property
  • plaything
  • good thing
  • poor thing
  • object
  • test subject/experiment/(science) project
  • bootblack
  • fucker
  • fucknugget
  • bitch (=beautiful individual that causes happiness/horniness)
  • darkling
  • goofball
  • dork
  • trickster
  • (human) stress ball
  • fidget/chew/squeaky/devoted toy
  • scratching post
  • (something that culturally resonates with the s-type)
  • (a personal nickname)

Derogatory endearments

  • (good/sweet) bitch/slut/baby/whore
  • little shit
  • (fresh/thick/juicy/stinky/hungry/tasty/rare) meat
  • (mother)/fucker
  • fucktoy/fuckdoll/fuckpet
  • (pain/fuck/love) bucket/pail/pocket
  • sleeve/cock holster/hole
  • chattel
  • chew toy
  • (useful) object
  • thing
  • ashtray
  • foot stool
  • furniture
  • mop
  • rag
  • toilet
  • (clean) slate
  • punchbag
  • noise-maker
  • wriggly-thing
  • meat sack
  • beast
  • monster
  • worm
  • creature
  • wimp
  • scardey-cat
  • loser
  • fuck-up
  • perv(ert)
  • peon

For Dominant / Top Types

Honorifics & affectionate endearments

  • Ruler
  • My Liege
  • Sovereign
  • (their) Majesty
  • (their) Highness
  • Your Grace
  • Regent
  • Thempress/Themperor
  • Thane
  • Director
  • Enabler
  • Ringleader
  • Your Honor
  • Adored/Sweet One
  • My/Guiding Light
  • One Who Must Be Obeyed
  • Boss/Trainer/Manager
  • Leader
  • Director
  • Chef
  • Commander (in Chief)
  • Chief
  • Captain (O Captain, my Captain)
  • Knight
  • Coach
  • Teacher/Professor
  • Pilot
  • [other professional title]
  • Zir
  • Mxtress/Mxtrex
  • Owner
  • [Toy-] Collector/Curator/Wielder/Whore
  • [Doll] Maker
  • Fae
  • Predator/Hunter
  • Tormentor/Jailer
  • Sacred/Divine One
  • Deity
  • Goddexx
  • Caretaker
  • Daddi/Zaddy
  • (My) Love
  • Darling/Dearling/Dearest/Dear
  • My Tallness
  • Queerling
  • Cruel/Dark one
  • Pain-Bringer
  • Mean
  • Monster/Beast
  • Asshole*
  • (Sadistic) Bastard*
  • Fucker*

*Perhaps only for the brave (and foolhardy)

For In-Scene Switches:

  • comrade
  • neighbor
  • partner/lover
  • co-conspirator
  • friend
  • darling
  • sib(ling)

Original Article Reference

Tussled. (Dec 2022). Non-binary terms of endearment for scenes. Available at this URL. Accessed on 10/13/23.

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