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Ass Job

An ass job is a sexual act where a partner uses their butt cheeks to stimulate another person’s penis (or sometimes another body part). It usually involves sliding the penis between the cheeks - often with lube. Unlike anal sex, there is no penetration. The stimulation comes from pressure and movement between the butt cheeks.

An ass job can be part of foreplay, or enjoyed any time partners are looking for anal play without penetration. The term is slang and is sometimes seen in porn.

Safety and Consent

Giving or receiving an ass job is very low risk as long as everyone's game. Here are a few other safety considerations:

  • Use lube: Butts don't self-lubricate, so be sure to lube up to avoid unpleasant levels of friction.
  • Consider barriers: Condoms can be used during ass jobs, particularly if there’s concern about bacteria transfer or if you’re switching to oral/penetrative sex afterward. Risk of STI infection is lower but still present.
  • Communicate comfort: Ass play shouldn't be uncomfortable, but everyone is different.

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