Double Blowjob
A double blowjob is when two people perform oral sex on one penis simultaneously. It often involves coordinated licking, sucking, kissing, and hand use, and is typically part of a threesome (MFF or MMM), though it can happen in larger group settings too. The act is not only fun for the receiver, but also the givers, who may enjoy the intimacy and shared attention.
Why People Are Into It
It isn't hard to imagine why two blowjobs wouldn't be better than one, but here are a few reasons why people enjoy double blowjobs.
Ego and Attention
Being lavished with attention and sensation from two people can be an intoxicating ego boost.
The Visual
Some double BJ lovers say it looks even hotter than it feels, and enjoy watching two partners coordinate, navigate each other, or even kiss or touch each other between turns.
Novelty
Most people don't get to enjoy a double blowjob every day, so the novelty of the act can make it extra special.
Group Sex
Double blowjobs often happen in group sex or swinger settings. It's a way to turn a blowjob into a more collaborative experience.
Ways to Play
Want to give a double blowjob a try? Here are some tips on how to do it. (But, as always, getting creative is never a bad thing!)
Get Comfortable
Use pillows or kneel in a position that supports both givers. One person may hold or massage the penis, balls, or thighs while the other uses their mouth. A fun way to start can be with both givers touching the penis with their tongues at the same time.
Share the Focus
Alternate between shaft and balls so both givers have equal involvement. Try synchronous movements (both sucking different parts at the same rhythm) or alternating patterns (one switches to balls while the other focuses on the shaft).
A fun variation: let the penis slide out of one giver's mouth and directly into the other’s.
Experiment With Positioning
Sit or kneel on either side of the penis and each take half the shaft. One giver can position themselves under the shaft for easier access to the balls while the other stays on the shaft/head.
Try moving in opposite directions with your licks for a “twisting” sensation.
Use Hands and Extra Touch
Don’t forget to use hands for stroking, caressing thighs, or stimulating other erogenous zones. Eye contact with the receiver or playful looks at the co-giver can heighten the erotic energy.
If all are comfortable, givers can also touch or kiss each other.
Plan the Climax
Decide beforehand where the receiver should finish (mouth, body, etc.), or let it be a surprise if all agree.
Safety and Consent
Blowjobs carry some risk of STI transmission, so it's a good idea to use condoms. Otherwise, careful discussion or negotiation around fluid exchange is a must. Clear communication is also crucial to ensure all partners are physically comfortable and excited about continuing with the action.
Some people describe double BJs as playful or competitive, but no one should feel like they have to “outdo” the other. Keep it collaborative, not a performance. Ego boosts are great, but respect your partner’s comfort over “showmanship.”
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