Rusty Trombone

Rusty trombone is a slang term for a sexual act in which one person performs oral stimulation on a partner's anus (rimming) while simultaneously reaching around from behind to give them a handjob. The name comes from the resemblance between the hand motion and slide movement used to play a trombone.

The term is often associated with internet slang, comedy, and urban legends. This has led some people to assume it exists more as a joke than a real sexual practice. However, the act itself is a genuine sexual activity that many people engage in and discuss openly within sex-positive and kink communities.

Origins of the Term

The exact origins of the term are unclear. By the early 2000s, however, "rusty trombone" had become widely recognized as part of internet and pop culture slang. A 2003 article in Entertainment Weekly noted that the act was discussed on a Detroit-based U.S. radio show alongside other well-known sexual slang terms.

The term began appearing in Urban Dictionary starting in 2003, and Google Search data suggests it was already attracting significant search interest by that time, indicating that it was likely in use before then.

Why People Are Into It

People enjoy rusty trombones for lots of reasons. Part of the fun is the fact that this act is considered more of an urban legend. As a result, it can become a bucket-list experience for people who already love handjobs or anal play.

Plus, the area around the anus contains a high concentration of nerve endings, and many people find oral stimulation of the area intensely pleasurable. For some penis owners, stimulation of the anus and perineum can also indirectly enhance sensations throughout the pelvic region.

Others enjoy the act because it combines multiple forms of stimulation at once. The dual stimulation can create a sense of sensory overload that some people find highly pleasurable.

Ways to Play: How to Give a Rusty Trombone

Want to try giving someone a rusty trombone? Here are a few tips:

Find the Right Position

This one can be done with the receiver standing or kneeling, with their legs apart. The giving partner should be positioned behind them.

Keep It Clean

With any anal play, it's nice to be squeaky clean. Consider a bath or shower together before getting started. You can also use a dental dam as a barrier, depending on your comfort level. This also protects against STIs.

Communicate

There are many different sensations the giver can try here, both with their hands and mouth. Communication between partners can help find the best technique.

Use Lube

Handjobs tend to feel better with lube. Less friction means more fun—and reduces the risk of chafing.

Related Terms

• Rimming