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Fucklicking

Fucklicking is the act of licking a vulva or anus while its owner has penetrative sex. There are a few variations and it is sometimes associated with kink activities like cuckolding or threesomes. In this case, the person doing the licking may also pleasure the participant with the penis.

Some people stretch the meaning of fucklicking to include any oral service to a partner while they are having sex with someone else.

Why People Are Into It

People love fucklicking for lots of reasons. Here are a few.

Best Seat in the House

People love being physically close to the action. Being right in there can be a great visual and create a feeling of being included, rather than sidelined.

Cuckolding: Serving the Partner

In cuckolding dynamics, fucklicking is an act of service that prioritizes the Top's pleasure and reinforces their sexual power. Some people choose to pleasure the bull as well, if everyone is into it.

Humiliation

For some fucklickers, the turn-on is the humiliation of being placed in a submissive or degrading position, especially in front of a dominant partner. This is why fucklicking often shows up in chastity dynamics, cuckolding, and D/s relationships.

Conflicting Sensations

For some people, the appeal of fucklicking is the conflicting feelings it can arouse. It's hot, but can also be uncomfortable. It plays on desire, but can also be humiliating. It can inspire a sense of pride, while also playing on jealousy.

Boundary Pushing

Some people who try fucklicking don't always expect to like it—and then find it very hot. The tension of initial hesitation and discomfort coupled with what turns out to be a mind-blowing experience can make people feel proud of pushing their boundaries a little.

A Milestone

In many cuckolding spaces, fucklicking may be described as a milestone. For those who want to achieve this level of trust or surrender in the dynamic, it can be very satisfying.

Ways to Play: Common Fucklicking Positions

Want to give fucklicking a try? Here are some of the positions other kinksters recommend.

Edge-of-the-Bed

In this position, the receiving partner lays on their back near the edge of the bed, hips close to the edge, while their partner stands on the floor. The fucklicker is positioned lower, usually kneeling or seated near the edge of the bed, facing them. In a cuckolding situation, this makes for great eye contact between the cuck and their partner, while the bull remains close but secondary.

Doggy-Style

In this setup, the receiving partner is on hands and knees while being penetrated from behind. The fucklicker is positioned beneath the couple.

Reverse Cowgirl

In this position, the receiving partner sits on top of the penetrating partner with their back turned to them (reverse cowgirl.) The fucklicker can then access the receiving partner from the front. This is especially easy if both partners are positioned at the edge of the bed.

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