Scissoring
Scissoring is a sexual position in which two individuals, usually with vulvas, face each other and interlock their legs in a way that resembles the blades of scissors. In this position, they stimulate each other by rubbing their genitals together.
The act is heavily associated with cis lesbians, but anyone who enjoys genital-to-genital contact can engage in scissoring and may find it pleasurable. Even among lesbians, some people argue that scissoring is a porn-derived fantasy position rather than a regular practice. But a 2015 survey by Autostraddle found that 40% of people who identify as lesbian, bisexual, or queer practice scissoring regularly.
Origins of the Term
The word "scissoring" comes from the appearance of this position, with two open legs intersecting, like the blades of a pair of scissors. It is believed that the position and term was popularized in lesbian porn, where interlocking legs were often used as a way to show lesbian sex in a way that worked well on camera.
Ways to Play: How to Try Scissoring
Want to give scissoring a try? Here are a few tips to help you get started.
Choose a Position
There are a couple of different scissoring positions, so the first step is to choose the one you think might work best for you. The classic scissoring position has one participant on their back, legs open, and the other on their side, with one leg over and one leg under the other person. This allows them to pull their bodies together so that their genitals can make contact. Another option is for one partner to kneel, with the other partner lying sideways beneath them, with one leg in front of the kneeling person's body, and one beneath. Whatever you choose, take some time to test things out and get comfy. The goal is to get genital-to-genital contact in a way that feels pleasurable.
Use Lube
Friction is good but too much friction is ... not so good. Use some lube between you to increase glide and prevent chafing.
Try Toys
The clit is a pretty small target to hit, and sometimes people can't get the contact they need to get off. Try using a vibrator or suction toy if you need a little extra "oomph."
Explore and Have Fun
Sex positions are about experimentation. Try scissoring in the spirit of fun. If it doesn't become a favorite, at least you tried something new.
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