Reciprosexual

Reciprosexual is a sexual orientation on the asexual spectrum characterized by experiencing sexual attraction only after knowing that someone else is sexually attracted to you. In other words, reciprosexual individuals typically do not feel sexual attraction unless they are aware of mutual interest.

This orientation may be combined with other orientations to indicate what gender/s a reciprosexual is attracted to when the attraction does happen. For example someone identifying as homosexual and reciprosexual is exclusively attracted to people who are the same gender or sex as them and who are attracted to them first.

Reciprosexuality is a neosexuality. As such, it is less about what genders you're attracted to and more about in what way you derive attraction.