Spitting
Spit play is a form of BDSM or fetish play where saliva is used in erotic, sensual, or power-exchange contexts. It can appear in Dominance/submission dynamics, humiliation play, or as an intensified form of intimacy. In some dynamics, like FemDom, spitting may be used to reinforce hierarchy, with the dominant using saliva as a command, a symbol of control, or a form of degradation. For some submissives, receiving a dominant’s saliva can feel like a reward, a sign of closeness, or a way of expressing devotion.
Spit on the boots so that the submerged lick the nectar. Spit on the vinyl floor and let the person lick it and drink it. There are all kinds of recipes and games. Spit into an elegant cup and the submissive drinks it. Spitting on the chest. Spit on each other. Spit on buttocks. Anus. or genitals. Think about when you kiss there is saliva, why not increase the dose and use this precious nectar. - FetLife member
Spit play can range from sensual and intimate (like sharing saliva during kissing) to more intense forms of degradation (such as spitting on a submissive’s body or having them lick spit from a surface or the floor). Partners may explore different textures, amounts, or contexts depending on personal preference. As with any bodily-fluid play, all activities should be consensual, negotiated, and mindful of hygiene and boundaries.
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