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Kinktionary

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Tease and Denial

Tease and denial is a kink practice in which a Dominant or Top stimulates, arouses, and tempts a submissive, only to withhold orgasm. The focus is on building sexual tension and frustration as a form of control, power exchange, or torment, and leaving the submissive desperate for release.

Tease and denial can involve edging, verbal teasing and dirty talk, and orgasm denial. It can be practiced in person or online through instructions and commands.

Why People Are Into It

In tease and denial, orgasm can become a tool of power that the Dominant uses over the submissive. Denying orgasm can also build intensity, making the eventual orgasm more intense. For masochists or humiliation lovers, frustration can also be a delightful form of suffering.

Safety & Consent

Denial must be consensual and negotiated. While not a high risk activity, extensive edging can cause discomfort and overstimulation.

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