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Homance

A homance is a close, emotionally intimate friendship between women that is typically non-sexual and non-romantic. It is often described as the feminine equivalent of a “bromance,” emphasizing a deep bond that goes beyond a casual friendship.

People may use the term to describe friendships that involve strong loyalty, emotional closeness, frequent time together, or a partnership-like dynamic. While some homances may resemble romantic friendships in intensity, the term usually refers to a platonic connection.

Origins of the Term

The term homance is believed to be a playful blend of "homegirl" (or “homie”) and "romance". However, others associate "ho" with a slang term for a promiscuous woman, which can make the label feel sexist, degrading, or uncomfortable for some.

The word first appeared in Urban Dictionary in 2008, and gained attention in the early 2010s through language discussions and pop-culture writing, including commentary by lexicographer Ben Schott on language trends.

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