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More like guidelines and a lot less like definitions.


The antonym to "Collared", Uncollared is the status of a formerly collared s-type who has gone through the process of Uncollaring.

Like a 'BDSM divorce/breakup', giving back the collar is considered a symbolic sign that a relationship based on Power Exchange will no longer exist.

This may also include making a contract null and void, if a contract between participants was used. Certain s-type lifestyles may have jargonistic terms for being uncollared, such as identifying as a 'stray' if a petplayer.

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