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More like guidelines and a lot less like definitions.


A trusted friend that guides, protects and helps. This can include talking through BDSM concepts, helping to vet potential play partners, and generally being there as a guide and confidant to assist and look out for someone. This can be in person or online and can mean having a person or a venue under their protection. This type of relationship is usually non-sexual and non-romantic.

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