Squish

A squish is usually a strong, non-romantic attraction to someone, similar to a crush but without romantic or sexual feelings. It typically involves a desire for friendship, emotional closeness, or shared experiences rather than a romantic relationship.

The term is commonly used in asexual and aromantic communities to describe platonic attraction.

For some people, having a squish feels a lot like a crush, but without romantic intent. There is still a strong desire for closeness, however, and the relationship may still involve physical affection like hugging, cuddling, and hand-holding.

Squish vs. Crush

A squish and a crush can feel similar, which is why people often confuse them. The difference usually comes down to intent and framing:

• Squish: Wanting closeness without romance.
• Crush: Wanting a romantic relationship.

With a squish, people often:

• Don’t want to date
• Don’t imagine romantic milestones (dates, marriage, etc.)
• Feel uncomfortable being seen as a couple

Squishes are also often described as calmer and more secure, while crushes can feel more intense, nervous, or high-stakes.

Related Terms

• Platonic Crush
• Crushing On
• Alterous Attraction
• Queerplatonic Partner
• Platoniromantic