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Antagonizer

Antagonizer is usually someone who enjoys creating tension, conflict, or resistance within a BDSM dynamic. An antagonizer may deliberately provoke, challenge, frustrate, or push their partner's buttons. An antagonizer is defined by their enjoyment of creating tension, conflict, or resistance, whether within a Dominant/submissive relationship or outside of one.

Antagonizers may appear in enemies-to-lovers dynamics, brat/brat-tamer relationships, rivalry play, or other forms of consensual adversarial play. Their behavior is intentional and collaborative.

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