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Smart Ass Sadomasochist

A smart ass sadomasochist (SASM) is someone who enjoys both dishing out and receiving pain, teasing, and degradation in a playful but intense way. They combine the traits of a smart ass masochist, who provokes their partner to get a reaction AND a smart ass sadist, who enjoys inflicting pain with a sharp sense of humor.

A SASM thrives on pushing boundaries, switching between teasing to get in trouble and dishing out punishment themselves. They love the back-and-forth dynamic, where pain, humor, and power shifts keep things exciting.

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