Cuddle Switch

A cuddle switch is usually someone who enjoys both giving and receiving cuddles and physical affection. They may be equally happy being the big spoon or little spoon, holding someone or being held.

The term borrows switch from BDSM language, but it doesn’t necessarily imply a Dominant/submissive dynamic. It can simply describe someone who likes taking either role during cuddling.

Cuddling may be enjoyed on its own or as part of the intimacy before, during, or after a kink scene.