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Bully

As a BDSM or kink role, a bully refers to someone who enjoys teasing and pushing boundaries in a playful but firm way, often focusing on emotional control and manipulation. In scenes, the bully partner might playfully "pick on" the submissive, with both deriving enjoyment from it. This can include verbal teasing, light humiliation, or asserting control in a manner that is intense but consensual. The key distinction between this role and actual bullying lies in the foundation of consent, communication, and mutual satisfaction.

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